Alex Hourigan

Like that's when opposites attract doesn't actually line up and you're probably just not compatible.

But in this instance, a lot of these things are pretty surface level differences between the two of you.

And I think for her it's hard because she's the one who maybe the more

um type b character and he's the type a right and typically type b people are seen as like messy and chaotic and like they don't have their shit together but in reality he might help her become more organized and she might help him loosen up and have fun i want that

So like I think she's positioning it like he's got his shit together and I'm kind of a mess and it's like that's not actually it.

But he likes you.

He likes you because you're fun.

It's kind of like I want to come to the wedding.

The extroverted, like extroverted girlfriend, introverted boyfriend.

Yeah.

I feel like it's a tale as old as time.

Yeah, but I know what you mean, like kind of serious, silly.

That's the opposite trope.

Attract, yeah.

I like it.

I think it's good to have somebody that can balance you out as long as it is on some of those more like.

Exactly.

Yeah.

Yeah.

He'll make the holiday spreadsheet and then you'll be.