Bela Gandhi

But when I actually sat down, I'm like, okay, who are my elevator people?

Like, who are the people that make me really happy?

He was the number one person on my elevator list.

the first person I wanted to talk to in the morning and the last person I wanted to talk to in the evening and hang out with.

And I was like, huh, okay.

And so then I started to look at him with slightly different lenses.

I'm like, okay, he is cute.

And I think he's cute to me, right?

And he's always like, I always thought you were attractive, right?

So it's just, it's funny how these things can flip.

I'm not saying it's going to happen all the time, but having this methodology, I'll tell you,

I'll say to people will say sometimes I'm not sure I'm feeling the attraction.

I'm like, that's fine.

Let's give it a second date.

Let's give it a third date.

If by the fourth, fifth, sixth date, it's not growing and you feel like if this person tries to touch me, I think I might like want to run out of the room.

We're done.

We gave it a try.

Yeah, it's a great question.

People that love me for me.