Bela Gandhi

where I can just be myself.

People that are always there for me.

They see what's good in me and they tell me.

They believe I can do anything.

They're my cheerleaders.

And so what I tell my clients is, and here's the fun little plot twist shift, is yes, we're looking for elevator people.

And now I want you to be the person you want to attract.

So starting to become an elevator person in the dating world and everywhere in your life.

Through doing this, I've seen people get promoted at work.

They have better friendships with their friends, better relationships with their families because they're being better in the world.

Oh, great, both.

Number one, being compassionate to yourself, right?

We're so hard on ourselves, right?

When we make a mistake, the way we talk to ourselves is like we would never talk to somebody like that.

So it's being compassionate and graceful and loving to yourself and saying, that's okay.

You know what?

Tomorrow is going to be better.

And then being an elevator person to the people.

Let's just say in the dating world, if I said I'm going to be an elevator person on the date,

I'm going to be interested in you and look for the things that elevate you, that you're proud of, that you're passionate about, and have you start to talk about that and really make you feel like I see you because I'm listening to understand you.