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Carlos Barragan

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
146 total appearances

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The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

So in a way, the scammers get scammed.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

And there are many, many ways of getting the money from there.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

I've met hotel owners who devise plans to serve fake alcohol to them.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

I've seen boutiques selling clothes for exorbitant amounts of money to Yahoo boys who don't even care.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

Obviously, women who devise ways to get the money from these boys.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

So the whole community tries to survive in one way or the other.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

Well, I think that when readers read the book, they see a lot of mixed feelings.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

And, you know, being in Ikotun, the neighborhood in Lagos, you see people struggling so much that I'm not the right person to judge what they are doing.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

And I think when you see so many young men doing it, there might be reasons why they are doing it.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

But at the same time,

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

you cannot just say, well, it's because of poverty circumstances, because what about the young Nigerians who are not doing it?

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

You know, they are also facing

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

a dire economic crisis and still they they decide not to do it but i think it's a question that we all face and especially in hard circumstances in certain countries whether the circumstances that uh affect you are gonna push you into doing something bad and i think it's the tension between the circumstances of your life

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

and whether you have agency to say no to crime, for example.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

So I guess that I have mixed feelings.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

And as with everything, life is complex and you have to find the reasons why this is happening before tackling it.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

Yeah, the first reason why I wanted to write this book was because I wanted to write a book about loneliness.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

But I couldn't grasp that concept just by interviewing victims, because there is also the victim side in the book, but mainly I focus on four scammers.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

But because once I was there, I spent more than six months living in Lagos.

The Claire Byrne Show
The man whose mother fell for a romance scammer

Once I was there, I understood that to explain the loneliness epidemic in the West that we mentioned so many times, I think it was better to just do it from there, because once you see