Chloé Hayden

I, I used to do, Oh, I still do.

I do conferences around the world.

Uh, and I was doing a meet and greet and I had this woman come up to me and she gave me this ashtray and this ashtray.

Uh, so all of Titanic's like,

what do you call them, like bits and pieces were all made in the same factory.

And because of how grand Titanic was, everything had to be so perfect.

And this ashtray was slightly askew, so it didn't make the cut.

And so this woman's grandfather put it in his pocket and took it home with him.

And a week later, Titanic was the bottom of the Atlantic Ocean.

And so she gave this ashtray to me.

And it is my most prized possession and I think it is such a beautiful metaphor that because something was different, it survived.

I feel like more people need to be happy in their own minds and in their own bodies.

And I get told all the time, and I've always found it really interesting, I get told all the time how interesting it is, how much joy I have.

And I think that's really sad.

So I think my legacy is just find more moments for joy, you know?

Do little things in your life that bring you joy.

Like wear your favorite dress around your house because it makes you feel like a princess and burn the expensive candle because you can and have the bubble bath with the expensive lush bath bomb because it's a random Tuesday afternoon.

Yeah, my legacy is just do things that bring you joy.

I love being whimsy.

It's so good.