Danette

Hi, FKS fam.

Love you guys and the podcast.

I'm in a slight dilemma.

My sister and her boyfriend broke up a month ago.

He was controlling, and they had serious issues in the relationship, but they still made it work.

They follow different religions.

His parents weren't okay with the religious differences, so they pressured him to break up, and so he did.

I saw her truly break down.

Her self-worth was shattered.

We have worked towards bringing her back to her real self.

We get a sliver of her old self here and there these days.

She had this stuffed animal that she gave him because they've been long distance for the last year.

She asked me if I could get it from him.

It's been just over a month and she has started to heal and reflect and get better.

I met her ex to get her stuffed animal and he asked if I could talk to him for a few minutes.

I agreed and he said he regrets everything.

He wants to reach out to her and try to win her back.

I told him she has reflected and started to move on and her mental state is pretty bad.

She has lost a lot of trust in him and the damage seems irreparable.

I was talking to her today and asked her what she would do if he came back to her and she said she doesn't know.