Dr. Katriona O'Sullivan

Like, this idea that a man will explode if he doesn't finish.

Whereas, you know, we're fine.

We can push our needs aside.

Like, I think there's that implicit...

a message to women as well about how we should be sexually with men.

And as a girl who had low self-esteem, I got into an abusive relationship and the sex was really bad.

But I didn't even know that it was... Well, that's what you thought.

I just thought... What more was it supposed to be?

Yeah.

But I know a load of women who actually, you know, accept going to bed without having an orgasm, like lots and lots of women.

And so I was really lucky that...

Not necessarily, but I actually had my first orgasm.

I'm afraid to say that on the radio.

I had my first orgasm actually on my own by mistake when I was 19 in a shower.

And I was like, oh my God, is this what my body is made for?

I actually did not know that there's this amount of pleasure available to me.

And anyway, look, when I turned 22, I was really living a desperate life in Dublin One.

And I asked for help and I went to therapy.

And this therapy was so good for me.

And I made a decision in that therapy.