Jody

The story that I have is that he doesn't have the confidence to go out and do better for himself.

Well, and not just that I want, but the life we agreed that we wanted together.

Hi, Dr. John.

I'm well.

How are you?

Well, thanks for taking my call.

It's an honor to talk to you.

You too.

Thanks.

I'm calling because I just kind of wanted your input to see how I deal with some resentment that I have toward my husband as the

Breadwinner or I guess sort of higher income earner in our family.

And that's not really the place where I wanted to be.

So just kind of wanted to get your thoughts because it kind of keeps... I think I'm past it and then it creeps up again.

And this resentment is kind of an undercurrent for me.

Gosh, that's a good question.

And how to put it into words.

Not being the provider that, you know, I needed or desired, I guess.

Um, oh gosh.

Um, I guess just not having the confidence to do better for himself and for our family.

Um, not being the leader that I would like to have in a husband.