Lucy Meggeson

That doesn't mean my life is perfect.

My life is far from perfect.

I'm a human and I have problems like everybody else.

Yeah.

But in that respect...

The peace.

No.

Do you know what?

The number one best thing that I find about personally being single is that I feel like I am the best version of myself when I'm single.

I prefer myself when I'm single.

I mean, there are the really obvious things like, yes, there's the freedom and the peace, like I just mentioned.

And, you know, there's no compromise.

Lack of compromise is a big one.

Like, I find that not... I mean, people are so... People talk about single women being, you know, quote, selfish, but...

Well, exactly.

Also, I've had so many people kind of push back on various reels and stuff that I've done on Instagram, like when I've talked about this sort of stuff.

They're like, oh my God, you're so selfish or, you know, all the rest of it.

But it's like, why is it a bad thing that I'm kind of focusing on myself and my life?

Because apart from anything else, when you're single and you do get the chance to kind of go inwards a lot and focus on you and your life,

actually you then subsequently show up as a better version of yourself to the people that you love as well.