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Matt Willis

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1261 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

The High Performance Podcast
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud (E408)

I've had that in the past where you say how you're feeling and all of a sudden the very empathetic partner that you have thinks it's their fault.

The High Performance Podcast
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud (E408)

And it's like, oh God, I'm not blaming anyone.

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

Yeah, I learned that quite early on because I went into therapy session early into recovery.

The High Performance Podcast
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud (E408)

I'm just saying how I feel.

The High Performance Podcast
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud (E408)

So it's better to just leave it in the room, I think.

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

And I walked down, he sat down, he goes, how are you doing?

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

I said, I've been thinking.

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

He went, that's dangerous.

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

I was like, oh, and I started to go on.

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

He went, Matt, can I give you some advice?

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

He goes, never go inside your own head without an adult present.

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

That is a fucking great line.

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

24 you know so and it was a great line I've really kept to that because like sometimes I'm like if I start to kind of go in there and start to think about things I can make things so much worse so where do you go then because you're not in therapy at the moment so who do you speak to today but I'm very having this conversation has made me very aware of how much I need to do it right now I think so so yeah I would go to a therapist

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

Do you think this, though, feels a bit like therapy?

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

Do you know, I'm... I think particularly... Already, already, already.

UNTAPPED with Spencer Matthews
Things Men Don't Say Out Loud

No, literally, I just... Sorting you out.