Richard Cooper

I think paying attention to her past and her past behaviors, how she spent her twenties, you know, did she travel a lot?

You know, she spent a lot of time, um, you know, with her girlfriends away, Cancun, Ibiza, bachelorette parties, foam cannon party, stuff like that.

Like that's how you can really assess the caliber and quality of a woman.

Do you think the best approach these days is the passport bro model where you're going for women in other countries if you can afford that?

It can be, but you want to stay there.

I think the mistake a lot of these passport bros make is they think the grass is greener on the other side, but the grass is greener where you water and fertilize it.

And if you don't understand what you're doing in North America and you go somewhere like Colombia or Asia or, you know, like one of the other places where you see a lot of passport bros go, sure, your sexual market value might be higher because you're Caucasian in another country where Caucasians are valued higher.

Your money will probably go further because the cost of living is lower over there.

But if you suck with women in Scottsdale, Arizona, you're going to suck with women in Bangkok, Thailand, right?

Yeah.

So you're saying to develop the skills first.

Develop the man.

Absolutely.

So do you think you should wait till you have a bankroll or what should they be developing exactly?

Well, it depends what the goal is.

I mean, if you want to have a family, which seems to be what most guys still really push for hard, even though I tell men all the time, like smart men don't get married, you know, I've got a chapter in one of my books on the topic specifically, but

You have to be very, very careful about that.

Inviting a woman to your life changes the economic model.

It changes your risk exposure dramatically.

And I think if that's what your goal is, then you have to develop a level of renown for yourself, but also have the capabilities of dealing with a woman over the long term.