Richard Cooper

Because most men, what they usually find out

There's a really interesting study by Aron and Acevedo, and they found after about 8.3 years, less than 13% of couples still love each other.

And less than 3% of couples would define the relationship as blissful, like them being in a state of bliss for one another.

So as a...

as a relationship model goes, like committed long-term relationships that look like marriage or living together or anything around something like that, they generally don't work out in the way that most men expect, right?

Like they'll go and do all the right things.

They tell men do what's right.

They tell women do what's right for you.

So they'll go and do the right things.

They'll invite her, you know, they'll invite her into his life, commit to her, be exclusive to her, be sexually monogamous with her, buy her a house, have the children, all that.

But they don't have the game part.

They don't understand what women respond to.

They don't understand what keeps women going over the long term to keep them interested in them.

I call it genuine burning desire.

And that's why you see those stats where it's like so few people are actually like each other after eight years.

Yeah, that's one of the craziest stats I've ever heard.

I did not know that.

Yeah, it's insane.

You should go look it up.

Yeah, only 13% still love each other.