Rox Pink

Yeah, this one is all about you, babe.

So last year you were officially diagnosed with autism.

We have strongly suspected it for over a year, a couple of years.

But for the first five years of our relationship, we had no idea.

I had no idea.

And there are, I get to look back now and see ways that I've pushed you or judged you or felt something towards you that is because of autism.

And I carry a lot of guilt about a lot of these things because I would blame you for it.

We'll go over it.

It's going to be 10 things.

Yeah, I just, because I didn't know.

And I would take things personally.

I would blame you.

I'd try and change you.

And we don't do any of that anymore.

And life is absolutely a lot more lovely, isn't it?

I think, I imagine that you're going to recognise all of them.

And I do just want to say, you know, you were in a relationship with me.

I was diagnosed with ADHD.

You then totally changed your mind about so many parts about me.

you did that work years before I ever did that work so I just want to say shout out like to men to me yeah because that's I don't know not everyone would do that okay come on then so this is the autism translation guide I'm the translator oh yeah I can do that that's easy oh I need to change my title then what do you mean