Sally McMullen

Yeah, because that maybe impacts the response.

Yeah.

I'm going to make the editorial decision for us that it was mind-blowing for both of them.

Well, he wouldn't be, you know...

hanging around if it wasn't yeah that's the thing but it's like he but she said that he's treated so many other women and that would be yeah and that's the thing is like do you want to put yourself through that put yourself through that or like even date someone that

We don't know the details of like how he navigated those relationships with other women.

But like do you want to date someone who maybe hasn't been respectful to other women's feelings?

I'm not saying that's the situation because we don't have those details.

But like if it has been like quite a fuckboy situation of just like, you know, sleeping with someone and then like not really being conscious of their feelings, that's probably not someone that has...

super long-term potential unless they – oh, she was saying can a fuckboy be reformed.

Wow.

I was going to say that.

I think it's disorganized.

It's called disorganized attachment and it's the mix of anxious and avoidant.

Yeah, disorganized is like they'll like –

have the ability to emotionally connect but then when you emotionally connect then they're like no no no it's like when they give you a forehead kiss right and it's like if we're not married don't do that yeah that's like the most what's the word that's like the most intimate thing yeah forehead kiss as well as washing someone's hair

Yeah.

Yeah.

Boy washing your hair is like literally the most intimate thing that could possibly happen ever.

Literally.