Tad

Okay.

Were you like looking for kinky sex?

Like, I mean, I don't know.

I think like as a woman, if some guy right when I met him on some, you know, regular vanilla website, dating site was like, oh, I want to be in a female led relationship and I want to be non monogamous.

I might be a little bit like, what the fuck?

You know what I mean?

No, it wasn't vanilla.

Okay.

Cupid wasn't, there was a way to put on there that like, you're not,

vanilla that you're more hardcore correct okay cool so you were on there as what like a guy that was into humiliation and female led or non-monogamy yeah non-monogamy it was just looking for fun yeah looking for fun you know that type of relationship just like you know open to that kind of thing and and your wife answered your ad she was down just to fuck

Okay.

So tell me about that first date.

But did you guys bang that first time?

That's what I want to know.

I mean, cause you're not going, you're going into this as like, Hey, down to fuck, totally non-monogamous kind of thing, you know?

Okay, now, and so, but in those conversations, those first couple conversations, because you are going in very open, do you discuss like the things that you're into and get more specific?

Like, did you know what she was into?

Like, you know, what was her backstory as far as like non-monogamy is concerned?

So she was down for it all.

What did you guys decide to try first?