Arthur Brooks

Where the magic zone is 28, 29, 30, that's when you're both getting into a startup together. You're co-founders of a startup. By the time you're way into your 30s, sorry, that it's more of a merger.

Where the magic zone is 28, 29, 30, that's when you're both getting into a startup together. You're co-founders of a startup. By the time you're way into your 30s, sorry, that it's more of a merger.

Where the magic zone is 28, 29, 30, that's when you're both getting into a startup together. You're co-founders of a startup. By the time you're way into your 30s, sorry, that it's more of a merger.

It is more difficult. And that's what, you know, that's one of the problems with actually waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, but you, but startups that work are mature startups. So, you know, getting married at 16, you know, the first time through, or you meet somebody for the first time and say, I've never felt this way before. Let's go to the little marriage chapel in Vegas.

It is more difficult. And that's what, you know, that's one of the problems with actually waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, but you, but startups that work are mature startups. So, you know, getting married at 16, you know, the first time through, or you meet somebody for the first time and say, I've never felt this way before. Let's go to the little marriage chapel in Vegas.

It is more difficult. And that's what, you know, that's one of the problems with actually waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, waiting, but you, but startups that work are mature startups. So, you know, getting married at 16, you know, the first time through, or you meet somebody for the first time and say, I've never felt this way before. Let's go to the little marriage chapel in Vegas.

And the more experience that you have, the lower your failure rate is in this particular case. So people do learn. There is a learning process for entrepreneurs and for couples. And so your first relationship, you're like, golly, I mean, what did I learn from that? Oh, yeah. Here's the classic one.

And the more experience that you have, the lower your failure rate is in this particular case. So people do learn. There is a learning process for entrepreneurs and for couples. And so your first relationship, you're like, golly, I mean, what did I learn from that? Oh, yeah. Here's the classic one.

And the more experience that you have, the lower your failure rate is in this particular case. So people do learn. There is a learning process for entrepreneurs and for couples. And so your first relationship, you're like, golly, I mean, what did I learn from that? Oh, yeah. Here's the classic one.

The big thing that people learn often is that they'll get into a relationship with a so-called dark triad, and they'll know what to avoid, what personality characteristics to avoid. And so men who are most compelling to young women, for example, they tend to be narcissistic, Machiavellian, and somewhat psychopathic. That's the dark triad constellation.

The big thing that people learn often is that they'll get into a relationship with a so-called dark triad, and they'll know what to avoid, what personality characteristics to avoid. And so men who are most compelling to young women, for example, they tend to be narcissistic, Machiavellian, and somewhat psychopathic. That's the dark triad constellation.

The big thing that people learn often is that they'll get into a relationship with a so-called dark triad, and they'll know what to avoid, what personality characteristics to avoid. And so men who are most compelling to young women, for example, they tend to be narcissistic, Machiavellian, and somewhat psychopathic. That's the dark triad constellation.

I know you've talked about this before, and I've done a lot of work on the dark triad. Have you had Scott Barry Kaufman? Of course. Yeah. He's got his new book out soon. Yeah, and he's the master of that. He knows more about the dark triad than anybody else.

I know you've talked about this before, and I've done a lot of work on the dark triad. Have you had Scott Barry Kaufman? Of course. Yeah. He's got his new book out soon. Yeah, and he's the master of that. He knows more about the dark triad than anybody else.

I know you've talked about this before, and I've done a lot of work on the dark triad. Have you had Scott Barry Kaufman? Of course. Yeah. He's got his new book out soon. Yeah, and he's the master of that. He knows more about the dark triad than anybody else.

And so the big mistake that women will make is they'll get into a relationship with the dark triad, especially if they're emophilic, and so they fall in love quickly. Dark triads feed on that. Mm-hmm. because they will simulate the neurochemical cascade that they're actually not experiencing.

And so the big mistake that women will make is they'll get into a relationship with the dark triad, especially if they're emophilic, and so they fall in love quickly. Dark triads feed on that. Mm-hmm. because they will simulate the neurochemical cascade that they're actually not experiencing.

And so the big mistake that women will make is they'll get into a relationship with the dark triad, especially if they're emophilic, and so they fall in love quickly. Dark triads feed on that. Mm-hmm. because they will simulate the neurochemical cascade that they're actually not experiencing.

And then women, when they go through it the first time and have their hearts broken and their bank accounts drained, and all their friends have been slept with, they'll not make that mistake. They'll look for that again. Lesson that hopefully you only get once. And so heartbreak two, heartbreak three, they're usually learning different lessons unless there's a particular pathology.

And then women, when they go through it the first time and have their hearts broken and their bank accounts drained, and all their friends have been slept with, they'll not make that mistake. They'll look for that again. Lesson that hopefully you only get once. And so heartbreak two, heartbreak three, they're usually learning different lessons unless there's a particular pathology.