Ashley
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he had been pulling away for a long time that he wasn't as affectionate as he used to be. Um, and you know, I thought that was partly just, you know, being, you know, we've been together for five years. Um, we're a blended family. We have, uh, one baby together. We have children from other marriages, but, um, our, our, our baby is about a year and a half old.
he had been pulling away for a long time that he wasn't as affectionate as he used to be. Um, and you know, I thought that was partly just, you know, being, you know, we've been together for five years. Um, we're a blended family. We have, uh, one baby together. We have children from other marriages, but, um, our, our, our baby is about a year and a half old.
he had been pulling away for a long time that he wasn't as affectionate as he used to be. Um, and you know, I thought that was partly just, you know, being, you know, we've been together for five years. Um, we're a blended family. We have, uh, one baby together. We have children from other marriages, but, um, our, our, our baby is about a year and a half old.
And so I just kind of thought it was, you know, just what happens after postpartum, you know, just kind of, you grow apart, you don't, you don't talk as much, you're stressed out, whatever. But, Um, so anyway, he, he has changed his behavior like 180 degrees. Like he's, he's more immediately the next day, he's more affectionate with me. He's talking to me. He's more open with me.
And so I just kind of thought it was, you know, just what happens after postpartum, you know, just kind of, you grow apart, you don't, you don't talk as much, you're stressed out, whatever. But, Um, so anyway, he, he has changed his behavior like 180 degrees. Like he's, he's more immediately the next day, he's more affectionate with me. He's talking to me. He's more open with me.
And so I just kind of thought it was, you know, just what happens after postpartum, you know, just kind of, you grow apart, you don't, you don't talk as much, you're stressed out, whatever. But, Um, so anyway, he, he has changed his behavior like 180 degrees. Like he's, he's more immediately the next day, he's more affectionate with me. He's talking to me. He's more open with me.
He's like trying to reassure me. He's more involved with the kids rather than just like putting his earbuds in and doing chores or whatever he's doing. He's like more involved with them as well. He's, you know, not getting irritated anymore. with like the baby throwing fits like he was before and just really, really night and day.
He's like trying to reassure me. He's more involved with the kids rather than just like putting his earbuds in and doing chores or whatever he's doing. He's like more involved with them as well. He's, you know, not getting irritated anymore. with like the baby throwing fits like he was before and just really, really night and day.
He's like trying to reassure me. He's more involved with the kids rather than just like putting his earbuds in and doing chores or whatever he's doing. He's like more involved with them as well. He's, you know, not getting irritated anymore. with like the baby throwing fits like he was before and just really, really night and day.
And then two weeks after his initial confession, which mind you, I had asked him, do you have any, like, did you have an affair? No. Um, is there anything else I need to know? No. Two weeks afterwards, I've just kind of like had this like nagging feeling and I kept getting, you know, like the lightning bolt things in my mind and I continue to get those. And
And then two weeks after his initial confession, which mind you, I had asked him, do you have any, like, did you have an affair? No. Um, is there anything else I need to know? No. Two weeks afterwards, I've just kind of like had this like nagging feeling and I kept getting, you know, like the lightning bolt things in my mind and I continue to get those. And
And then two weeks after his initial confession, which mind you, I had asked him, do you have any, like, did you have an affair? No. Um, is there anything else I need to know? No. Two weeks afterwards, I've just kind of like had this like nagging feeling and I kept getting, you know, like the lightning bolt things in my mind and I continue to get those. And
And I've had two other serious adult relationships before him. And both of those cheated on me. Both of those had porn addictions as well. And so I just kind of have been through this before, I guess you'd say. And so I decided to go through his phone history. And there was a couple numbers that he would text. every once in a while, like a few times a month.
And I've had two other serious adult relationships before him. And both of those cheated on me. Both of those had porn addictions as well. And so I just kind of have been through this before, I guess you'd say. And so I decided to go through his phone history. And there was a couple numbers that he would text. every once in a while, like a few times a month.
And I've had two other serious adult relationships before him. And both of those cheated on me. Both of those had porn addictions as well. And so I just kind of have been through this before, I guess you'd say. And so I decided to go through his phone history. And there was a couple numbers that he would text. every once in a while, like a few times a month.
And I could see, I don't know, I couldn't read the text, but I know that they were exchanging pictures. And so I confronted him about that. And he admitted that those were people that he does know, girls that he does know, that he would basically solicit for pictures. And, you know, they would talk, whatever. He says he never met up with them.
And I could see, I don't know, I couldn't read the text, but I know that they were exchanging pictures. And so I confronted him about that. And he admitted that those were people that he does know, girls that he does know, that he would basically solicit for pictures. And, you know, they would talk, whatever. He says he never met up with them.
And I could see, I don't know, I couldn't read the text, but I know that they were exchanging pictures. And so I confronted him about that. And he admitted that those were people that he does know, girls that he does know, that he would basically solicit for pictures. And, you know, they would talk, whatever. He says he never met up with them.
He says he never engaged in anything physical, that it was just, to him, it was just another mode of getting more content or something. I don't really know. So that kind of, I think that part hurt more because, like, I tried to explain to him, like, do you understand how dangerous that is? Like, it's one thing having a porn addiction to me. Like, it is bad, and I know that.
He says he never engaged in anything physical, that it was just, to him, it was just another mode of getting more content or something. I don't really know. So that kind of, I think that part hurt more because, like, I tried to explain to him, like, do you understand how dangerous that is? Like, it's one thing having a porn addiction to me. Like, it is bad, and I know that.