Helen Fisher
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Yeah, he dumped me when I was 70.
Yeah, he dumped me when I was 70.
Yeah, he dumped me when I was 70.
Nobody gets out of love alive. Nobody. We all know that, but we go on.
Nobody gets out of love alive. Nobody. We all know that, but we go on.
Nobody gets out of love alive. Nobody. We all know that, but we go on.
I have been extremely lucky during most of my life. I've lived with men long-term, two men long-term, one for 15 years, another for 18 years. Oddly enough, I've studied marriage for 50 years, but I wasn't interested in marrying. I finally met the man of my dreams. I was just nuts about him. He's a very well-known journalist, and he had interviewed me for years, and I really liked him.
I have been extremely lucky during most of my life. I've lived with men long-term, two men long-term, one for 15 years, another for 18 years. Oddly enough, I've studied marriage for 50 years, but I wasn't interested in marrying. I finally met the man of my dreams. I was just nuts about him. He's a very well-known journalist, and he had interviewed me for years, and I really liked him.
I have been extremely lucky during most of my life. I've lived with men long-term, two men long-term, one for 15 years, another for 18 years. Oddly enough, I've studied marriage for 50 years, but I wasn't interested in marrying. I finally met the man of my dreams. I was just nuts about him. He's a very well-known journalist, and he had interviewed me for years, and I really liked him.
And we went... We went out for about six months, and then he dumped me. Yeah, he dumped me when I was 70. I was never angry at him. The reason I wasn't angry at him is he was a single father going through a horrible divorce. He just came to me one day, and he said, Helen, I just can't take on anymore. I remember he did it in Grand Central Station, and I was standing there, and I said, okay.
And we went... We went out for about six months, and then he dumped me. Yeah, he dumped me when I was 70. I was never angry at him. The reason I wasn't angry at him is he was a single father going through a horrible divorce. He just came to me one day, and he said, Helen, I just can't take on anymore. I remember he did it in Grand Central Station, and I was standing there, and I said, okay.
And we went... We went out for about six months, and then he dumped me. Yeah, he dumped me when I was 70. I was never angry at him. The reason I wasn't angry at him is he was a single father going through a horrible divorce. He just came to me one day, and he said, Helen, I just can't take on anymore. I remember he did it in Grand Central Station, and I was standing there, and I said, okay.
And I remember I walked home, and I just sat at the edge of my bed for six weeks playing music to kill yourself by. and crying. I mean, what else do you do? And, you know, overloading my friends with my sorrow and all that, which, by the way, after a while isn't a good idea. You're just raising the ghost. But anyway, what I did, though, is I never contacted him.
And I remember I walked home, and I just sat at the edge of my bed for six weeks playing music to kill yourself by. and crying. I mean, what else do you do? And, you know, overloading my friends with my sorrow and all that, which, by the way, after a while isn't a good idea. You're just raising the ghost. But anyway, what I did, though, is I never contacted him.
And I remember I walked home, and I just sat at the edge of my bed for six weeks playing music to kill yourself by. and crying. I mean, what else do you do? And, you know, overloading my friends with my sorrow and all that, which, by the way, after a while isn't a good idea. You're just raising the ghost. But anyway, what I did, though, is I never contacted him.
I never wrote him at Christmas to wish him well. I never contacted him again. I think it allowed him to realize that he was a free agent, that he could start this relationship and explore where it was going to go without having a tightrope around his neck. So he wrote to me a letter and said to me that he thought he'd made a terrible mistake. And we fell in love.
I never wrote him at Christmas to wish him well. I never contacted him again. I think it allowed him to realize that he was a free agent, that he could start this relationship and explore where it was going to go without having a tightrope around his neck. So he wrote to me a letter and said to me that he thought he'd made a terrible mistake. And we fell in love.
I never wrote him at Christmas to wish him well. I never contacted him again. I think it allowed him to realize that he was a free agent, that he could start this relationship and explore where it was going to go without having a tightrope around his neck. So he wrote to me a letter and said to me that he thought he'd made a terrible mistake. And we fell in love.
And I got married to him at age 75. When he asked me to marry him, I said, I'll marry you, but I'm not moving in. Because I have a little nice apartment in New York. He's got a beautiful apartment in the Bronx. But I mean, I'm there five nights a week. The other nights I like to go to the theater with my girlfriends, etc.
And I got married to him at age 75. When he asked me to marry him, I said, I'll marry you, but I'm not moving in. Because I have a little nice apartment in New York. He's got a beautiful apartment in the Bronx. But I mean, I'm there five nights a week. The other nights I like to go to the theater with my girlfriends, etc.