Janet Caperna
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And for me, when he came in the pantry, I was just immediately, I think, I don't know if it's just like being a woman, but like when a man comes into the room and like a small area and closes the door, I was like, oh, like what? It just was this weird like, oh, I'm not super comfortable, but paired also with like, I know that you put your hands on our friends when you were drinking.
And for me, when he came in the pantry, I was just immediately, I think, I don't know if it's just like being a woman, but like when a man comes into the room and like a small area and closes the door, I was like, oh, like what? It just was this weird like, oh, I'm not super comfortable, but paired also with like, I know that you put your hands on our friends when you were drinking.
Like here you are drinking and I'm in like a closed, confined space with you. It just made me feel not great. And I was like, if you're hiding something, wait five minutes for me to get my Easy Mac and get out of here or like 30 seconds even. Like I just was like, if you're hiding whatever you're hiding from, if it's hiding from cameras, if it's hiding from Nia. I don't want to know about this.
Like here you are drinking and I'm in like a closed, confined space with you. It just made me feel not great. And I was like, if you're hiding something, wait five minutes for me to get my Easy Mac and get out of here or like 30 seconds even. Like I just was like, if you're hiding whatever you're hiding from, if it's hiding from cameras, if it's hiding from Nia. I don't want to know about this.
Like here you are drinking and I'm in like a closed, confined space with you. It just made me feel not great. And I was like, if you're hiding something, wait five minutes for me to get my Easy Mac and get out of here or like 30 seconds even. Like I just was like, if you're hiding whatever you're hiding from, if it's hiding from cameras, if it's hiding from Nia. I don't want to know about this.
And I felt like there had been a couple of times where things that happened with Danny, I had told Nia privately, but I'm having to break news to her like, hey, your husband kept this thing a secret. I just I don't want to have secrets with somebody's husband. And it just, you know, I also didn't want to blow this pantry thing up like to be maybe even as big as it was.
And I felt like there had been a couple of times where things that happened with Danny, I had told Nia privately, but I'm having to break news to her like, hey, your husband kept this thing a secret. I just I don't want to have secrets with somebody's husband. And it just, you know, I also didn't want to blow this pantry thing up like to be maybe even as big as it was.
And I felt like there had been a couple of times where things that happened with Danny, I had told Nia privately, but I'm having to break news to her like, hey, your husband kept this thing a secret. I just I don't want to have secrets with somebody's husband. And it just, you know, I also didn't want to blow this pantry thing up like to be maybe even as big as it was.
It just was a moment where I was like, oh, this is a little uncomfortable. Yeah.
It just was a moment where I was like, oh, this is a little uncomfortable. Yeah.
It just was a moment where I was like, oh, this is a little uncomfortable. Yeah.
Um, you know, I haven't watched it, but I'm like, I'm still triggered. I guess. I mean, I think it was the accountability thing. I think is also something that all of us that kind of like struck a chord in Santa Barbara, because once you get to a point where if you're drinking so much that you're putting your hands on people and making them uncomfortable, um, You can say, I'm sorry, all you want.
Um, you know, I haven't watched it, but I'm like, I'm still triggered. I guess. I mean, I think it was the accountability thing. I think is also something that all of us that kind of like struck a chord in Santa Barbara, because once you get to a point where if you're drinking so much that you're putting your hands on people and making them uncomfortable, um, You can say, I'm sorry, all you want.
Um, you know, I haven't watched it, but I'm like, I'm still triggered. I guess. I mean, I think it was the accountability thing. I think is also something that all of us that kind of like struck a chord in Santa Barbara, because once you get to a point where if you're drinking so much that you're putting your hands on people and making them uncomfortable, um, You can say, I'm sorry, all you want.
And that's great. And I think at first, like Danny was saying all the right things and apologizing very sincerely. It seemed, you know, Jasmine sent me the text that he sent her. I think it was a couple of things. I think all of us assumed, you know, if you black out from drinking and you wake up and you're told you grabbed your friend's butts and made these inappropriate sexual comments to them.
And that's great. And I think at first, like Danny was saying all the right things and apologizing very sincerely. It seemed, you know, Jasmine sent me the text that he sent her. I think it was a couple of things. I think all of us assumed, you know, if you black out from drinking and you wake up and you're told you grabbed your friend's butts and made these inappropriate sexual comments to them.
And that's great. And I think at first, like Danny was saying all the right things and apologizing very sincerely. It seemed, you know, Jasmine sent me the text that he sent her. I think it was a couple of things. I think all of us assumed, you know, if you black out from drinking and you wake up and you're told you grabbed your friend's butts and made these inappropriate sexual comments to them.
You also want to see not just a written apology, but change in actions and behavior afterwards. And I think in Santa Barbara, we're like, here he is under a roof with all the same people still getting blacked out drunk. And I think he should have been a little bit more aware that that was going to make people uncomfortable.
You also want to see not just a written apology, but change in actions and behavior afterwards. And I think in Santa Barbara, we're like, here he is under a roof with all the same people still getting blacked out drunk. And I think he should have been a little bit more aware that that was going to make people uncomfortable.
You also want to see not just a written apology, but change in actions and behavior afterwards. And I think in Santa Barbara, we're like, here he is under a roof with all the same people still getting blacked out drunk. And I think he should have been a little bit more aware that that was going to make people uncomfortable.