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Jonathan Badeen

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

Yeah, you're not going to be miserable all night. I think what most people are just trying to avoid is misery. Yes.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

Yeah, you're not going to be miserable all night. I think what most people are just trying to avoid is misery. Yes.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

I mean, I float somewhere in between. I think some people might call me introverted. Some people might call me extroverted kind of depends on the situation. But I think, you know, from my own experience, the places where I, my introvertedness kind of showed was that, that sort of, especially in those nervousness. And I think the more you practice the better.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

I mean, I float somewhere in between. I think some people might call me introverted. Some people might call me extroverted kind of depends on the situation. But I think, you know, from my own experience, the places where I, my introvertedness kind of showed was that, that sort of, especially in those nervousness. And I think the more you practice the better.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

I mean, I float somewhere in between. I think some people might call me introverted. Some people might call me extroverted kind of depends on the situation. But I think, you know, from my own experience, the places where I, my introvertedness kind of showed was that, that sort of, especially in those nervousness. And I think the more you practice the better.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

And so, you know, go out on those dates and just feel like, you know, as much as possible and, and, You might even think, hey, look, next five dates, they're going to suck. They're all going to suck or something. Actually, don't. Hope for something good. But at the same time, reduce the pressure on it and just use it as experience to get yourself more comfortable.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

And so, you know, go out on those dates and just feel like, you know, as much as possible and, and, You might even think, hey, look, next five dates, they're going to suck. They're all going to suck or something. Actually, don't. Hope for something good. But at the same time, reduce the pressure on it and just use it as experience to get yourself more comfortable.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

And so, you know, go out on those dates and just feel like, you know, as much as possible and, and, You might even think, hey, look, next five dates, they're going to suck. They're all going to suck or something. Actually, don't. Hope for something good. But at the same time, reduce the pressure on it and just use it as experience to get yourself more comfortable.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

And the only way to do that is to not... to not make the stakes high, I think. Practice makes perfect. There's a lot of women out there who are introverted, too. That might be a good thing for you, but at the same time, it's going to make it a little bit harder for you to meet. So somebody's got to step up and try to act a little bit more extroverted to make it work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

And the only way to do that is to not... to not make the stakes high, I think. Practice makes perfect. There's a lot of women out there who are introverted, too. That might be a good thing for you, but at the same time, it's going to make it a little bit harder for you to meet. So somebody's got to step up and try to act a little bit more extroverted to make it work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

And the only way to do that is to not... to not make the stakes high, I think. Practice makes perfect. There's a lot of women out there who are introverted, too. That might be a good thing for you, but at the same time, it's going to make it a little bit harder for you to meet. So somebody's got to step up and try to act a little bit more extroverted to make it work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

Well, it's certainly, you know, there's algorithm. I don't even know what the current algorithm is. It changes over time. Including the ELO thing was real. That was a way of just trying to better match people. But there's a lot of things that end up going into it. And one of the things that really is heavily used, we found over the years, was just like, was recency.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

Well, it's certainly, you know, there's algorithm. I don't even know what the current algorithm is. It changes over time. Including the ELO thing was real. That was a way of just trying to better match people. But there's a lot of things that end up going into it. And one of the things that really is heavily used, we found over the years, was just like, was recency.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

Well, it's certainly, you know, there's algorithm. I don't even know what the current algorithm is. It changes over time. Including the ELO thing was real. That was a way of just trying to better match people. But there's a lot of things that end up going into it. And one of the things that really is heavily used, we found over the years, was just like, was recency.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

So that one's an important one. You got to keep using it. You can't, and I'm not like, again, I'm not there. I'm not making money off of this, but just telling you kind of how things work is that you have to keep using the thing because we want to show other, like we don't want to match somebody up. we didn't want to match somebody up with somebody who was not going to be there to answer them.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

So that one's an important one. You got to keep using it. You can't, and I'm not like, again, I'm not there. I'm not making money off of this, but just telling you kind of how things work is that you have to keep using the thing because we want to show other, like we don't want to match somebody up. we didn't want to match somebody up with somebody who was not going to be there to answer them.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

So that one's an important one. You got to keep using it. You can't, and I'm not like, again, I'm not there. I'm not making money off of this, but just telling you kind of how things work is that you have to keep using the thing because we want to show other, like we don't want to match somebody up. we didn't want to match somebody up with somebody who was not going to be there to answer them.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

We were able to observe that the better chance of a conversation happening and thus ultimately success on Tinder was that conversation happening, and therefore the more recently somebody used the app, the higher the chance of that happening. So that was actually one of the big levers that really there was. So that's one of those things.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

We were able to observe that the better chance of a conversation happening and thus ultimately success on Tinder was that conversation happening, and therefore the more recently somebody used the app, the higher the chance of that happening. So that was actually one of the big levers that really there was. So that's one of those things.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

We were able to observe that the better chance of a conversation happening and thus ultimately success on Tinder was that conversation happening, and therefore the more recently somebody used the app, the higher the chance of that happening. So that was actually one of the big levers that really there was. So that's one of those things.