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Jonathan Badeen

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

So, so I was like, it was, I was like basically thinking through it, you know, completely in the shower, but there was no fogged up mirror, you know, but.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

So, so I was like, it was, I was like basically thinking through it, you know, completely in the shower, but there was no fogged up mirror, you know, but.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

I think it absolutely does. I mean, ultimately, that's the only way you're going to succeed unless you are strictly looking for hookups and can keep the lie going or something for a while. But ultimately, whatever facade that you put up, it's going to break down. So you might as well start off and get the people that, as you said, who are going to be more interesting to you and interested in you.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

I think it absolutely does. I mean, ultimately, that's the only way you're going to succeed unless you are strictly looking for hookups and can keep the lie going or something for a while. But ultimately, whatever facade that you put up, it's going to break down. So you might as well start off and get the people that, as you said, who are going to be more interesting to you and interested in you.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

I think it absolutely does. I mean, ultimately, that's the only way you're going to succeed unless you are strictly looking for hookups and can keep the lie going or something for a while. But ultimately, whatever facade that you put up, it's going to break down. So you might as well start off and get the people that, as you said, who are going to be more interesting to you and interested in you.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

um but tinder in many ways was really built to try to to to drive authenticity um i you know i don't think people realize this today as much but you know some of the features that we originally did were including things like shared friends um that was sort of taken away from us at a certain point but um but that was a big thing and for sort of safety and you could essentially vet people but it was trying to show that authentic person

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

um but tinder in many ways was really built to try to to to drive authenticity um i you know i don't think people realize this today as much but you know some of the features that we originally did were including things like shared friends um that was sort of taken away from us at a certain point but um but that was a big thing and for sort of safety and you could essentially vet people but it was trying to show that authentic person

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

um but tinder in many ways was really built to try to to to drive authenticity um i you know i don't think people realize this today as much but you know some of the features that we originally did were including things like shared friends um that was sort of taken away from us at a certain point but um but that was a big thing and for sort of safety and you could essentially vet people but it was trying to show that authentic person

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

You didn't get to choose your name on there. You didn't get to choose the original version of Tinder. You couldn't even choose your photo. It was your Facebook photo. It was locked to that, trying to get that real photo that you share with your family and friends. It showed your shared interests with the person. Of course, today it's useless, but based upon Facebook interests.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

You didn't get to choose your name on there. You didn't get to choose the original version of Tinder. You couldn't even choose your photo. It was your Facebook photo. It was locked to that, trying to get that real photo that you share with your family and friends. It showed your shared interests with the person. Of course, today it's useless, but based upon Facebook interests.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

You didn't get to choose your name on there. You didn't get to choose the original version of Tinder. You couldn't even choose your photo. It was your Facebook photo. It was locked to that, trying to get that real photo that you share with your family and friends. It showed your shared interests with the person. Of course, today it's useless, but based upon Facebook interests.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

You're not sitting there lying. These are the things that you liked on Facebook. You weren't doing it for the purpose of that. So I think that, that was really what we were trying to do. You know, of course people have other ideas a lot of the time, but, um, but that is where we were really going.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

You're not sitting there lying. These are the things that you liked on Facebook. You weren't doing it for the purpose of that. So I think that, that was really what we were trying to do. You know, of course people have other ideas a lot of the time, but, um, but that is where we were really going.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

You're not sitting there lying. These are the things that you liked on Facebook. You weren't doing it for the purpose of that. So I think that, that was really what we were trying to do. You know, of course people have other ideas a lot of the time, but, um, but that is where we were really going.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

And cause we think it is, uh, we thought it was so important, uh, to sort of, to, to show an authentic side of oneself. Um, and you know, and people are going to see through it if it, if you're not, um, and it's going to, uh, At best, turn somebody off away to, at worst, make somebody think you're creepy and deceitful.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

And cause we think it is, uh, we thought it was so important, uh, to sort of, to, to show an authentic side of oneself. Um, and you know, and people are going to see through it if it, if you're not, um, and it's going to, uh, At best, turn somebody off away to, at worst, make somebody think you're creepy and deceitful.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

And cause we think it is, uh, we thought it was so important, uh, to sort of, to, to show an authentic side of oneself. Um, and you know, and people are going to see through it if it, if you're not, um, and it's going to, uh, At best, turn somebody off away to, at worst, make somebody think you're creepy and deceitful.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

I have done that once. What did you do? Sharks in the Caribbean.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

I have done that once. What did you do? Sharks in the Caribbean.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Do Women on Tinder Ignore You? The Man Who Invented Swiping Reveals How to Finally Get Matches (with Tinder’s Jonathan Badeen)

I have done that once. What did you do? Sharks in the Caribbean.