Kara

My mother was surprised that we were getting a prenup.

She didn't, in her mind, it wasn't something that, you know, people like us got, like people of our income range would be getting.

She's like, it's for the billionaires.

It's the daddy war bucks, yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

So she was like, what are you doing?

We do have a prenup.

The point was just to sort of make sure that should we ever get separated or divorced, that what each of us came into the relationship with and what each of us

may inherit in the future stays with the individual rather than becoming joint assets that get split.

My husband had been married previously and he went through a divorce, obviously.

And I wanted to give him some assurances that, you know, if our marriage ever did dissolve, that he wouldn't be left in a lurch because

I was angry and bitter at him.

I'm Kara.

I am 36 years old, and I work in supply chain logistics.

How long ago did you guys get married?

So we got married back in December of 2024 on a Friday the 13th.

No, we leaned in.

We wanted it.

I didn't have any doubts, but I know that divorce is like a really common thing.

And my husband had been married previously.