Matt
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I disagree.
I think it's a case by case basis. Like I think if you were to say everyone should get married at 20, I'd be like, Oh yeah, I strongly, strongly disagree with that. But clearly we were meant to be together.
I think it's a case by case basis. Like I think if you were to say everyone should get married at 20, I'd be like, Oh yeah, I strongly, strongly disagree with that. But clearly we were meant to be together.
I think it's a case by case basis. Like I think if you were to say everyone should get married at 20, I'd be like, Oh yeah, I strongly, strongly disagree with that. But clearly we were meant to be together.
I don't think there is anything to be gained by like waiting to make that official. Like we were already like prioritizing each other as like a couple at that point. And like, We'd been together for three years. We had pre-marriage counseling. We had a really sturdy group of friends around us and like community. We had mentors. We read a lot of books. We were financially stable.
I don't think there is anything to be gained by like waiting to make that official. Like we were already like prioritizing each other as like a couple at that point. And like, We'd been together for three years. We had pre-marriage counseling. We had a really sturdy group of friends around us and like community. We had mentors. We read a lot of books. We were financially stable.
I don't think there is anything to be gained by like waiting to make that official. Like we were already like prioritizing each other as like a couple at that point. And like, We'd been together for three years. We had pre-marriage counseling. We had a really sturdy group of friends around us and like community. We had mentors. We read a lot of books. We were financially stable.
We had pre-engagement counseling.
We had pre-engagement counseling.
We had pre-engagement counseling.
I think the stigma around counseling is changing and that's good. I think we're still making progress, but- Yeah, I feel like we were in a community where that was like encouraged and praised and it wasn't like no one was making you feel like, oh, maybe they're struggling with something. Like the fact is that you have a lot to learn and you got to learn it really fast when you get married.
I think the stigma around counseling is changing and that's good. I think we're still making progress, but- Yeah, I feel like we were in a community where that was like encouraged and praised and it wasn't like no one was making you feel like, oh, maybe they're struggling with something. Like the fact is that you have a lot to learn and you got to learn it really fast when you get married.
I think the stigma around counseling is changing and that's good. I think we're still making progress, but- Yeah, I feel like we were in a community where that was like encouraged and praised and it wasn't like no one was making you feel like, oh, maybe they're struggling with something. Like the fact is that you have a lot to learn and you got to learn it really fast when you get married.
And so it's good to like prepare yourself and to be, you know, forward thinking. So that's why I disagree with that because I'm like, we literally worked on ourselves a lot, worked on ourselves as a unit. I think that there was a lot of wisdom in making that decision. And I think that our age was just,
And so it's good to like prepare yourself and to be, you know, forward thinking. So that's why I disagree with that because I'm like, we literally worked on ourselves a lot, worked on ourselves as a unit. I think that there was a lot of wisdom in making that decision. And I think that our age was just,
And so it's good to like prepare yourself and to be, you know, forward thinking. So that's why I disagree with that because I'm like, we literally worked on ourselves a lot, worked on ourselves as a unit. I think that there was a lot of wisdom in making that decision. And I think that our age was just,
Okay, one, two, three. Agreed.
Okay, one, two, three. Agreed.
Okay, one, two, three. Agreed.
The last one we disagreed, but we agreed in disagreeing. This one you're saying you disagree.