Sarah Jenks

As women, we have been trained to always be judging ourselves off of the other people in the room, in the community, in our family. Historically, this is what has kept us safe because if we did rock the boat, we didn't have rights to protect our livelihood.

As women, we have been trained to always be judging ourselves off of the other people in the room, in the community, in our family. Historically, this is what has kept us safe because if we did rock the boat, we didn't have rights to protect our livelihood.

As women, we have been trained to always be judging ourselves off of the other people in the room, in the community, in our family. Historically, this is what has kept us safe because if we did rock the boat, we didn't have rights to protect our livelihood.

It's very normal to be afraid of outshining someone or making somebody mad because we just got the right to have our own credit card in like, what was it, 1974? If we did rock the boat, we could be kicked out of our marriage and not have any rights to be able to support ourselves. The first question to ask is, am I walking my path or am I walking somebody else's path?

It's very normal to be afraid of outshining someone or making somebody mad because we just got the right to have our own credit card in like, what was it, 1974? If we did rock the boat, we could be kicked out of our marriage and not have any rights to be able to support ourselves. The first question to ask is, am I walking my path or am I walking somebody else's path?

It's very normal to be afraid of outshining someone or making somebody mad because we just got the right to have our own credit card in like, what was it, 1974? If we did rock the boat, we could be kicked out of our marriage and not have any rights to be able to support ourselves. The first question to ask is, am I walking my path or am I walking somebody else's path?

Am I constantly trying to avoid upsetting my male partner? Am I constantly worried about outshining my friends? Any time we are judging ourselves off of what other people are going to think of us,

Am I constantly trying to avoid upsetting my male partner? Am I constantly worried about outshining my friends? Any time we are judging ourselves off of what other people are going to think of us,

Am I constantly trying to avoid upsetting my male partner? Am I constantly worried about outshining my friends? Any time we are judging ourselves off of what other people are going to think of us,

It's such a joy.

It's such a joy.

It's such a joy.

Yeah. So most of us, if we grew up with any sort of organized religion, we know the sacred masculine really well. And some of us know the toxic masculine pretty well also. And I was raised in the Christian faith. I come from a very traditional New England background. preppy family.

Yeah. So most of us, if we grew up with any sort of organized religion, we know the sacred masculine really well. And some of us know the toxic masculine pretty well also. And I was raised in the Christian faith. I come from a very traditional New England background. preppy family.

Yeah. So most of us, if we grew up with any sort of organized religion, we know the sacred masculine really well. And some of us know the toxic masculine pretty well also. And I was raised in the Christian faith. I come from a very traditional New England background. preppy family.

And what happened for me was I got really interested in spirituality, but it was like Eastern spirituality, transcendental meditation. It still didn't feel feminine, but I didn't even know to look for it really. And what happened for me was I actually was going to therapy and I stumbled into my therapist's living room and she had forgotten to clean up from a ceremony the night before.

And what happened for me was I got really interested in spirituality, but it was like Eastern spirituality, transcendental meditation. It still didn't feel feminine, but I didn't even know to look for it really. And what happened for me was I actually was going to therapy and I stumbled into my therapist's living room and she had forgotten to clean up from a ceremony the night before.

And what happened for me was I got really interested in spirituality, but it was like Eastern spirituality, transcendental meditation. It still didn't feel feminine, but I didn't even know to look for it really. And what happened for me was I actually was going to therapy and I stumbled into my therapist's living room and she had forgotten to clean up from a ceremony the night before.

And I had this full body cramp. I erupted in goosebumps all over my body. I started to cry. And she just looked at me like, what is happening to her? Because I'm in a polo shirt and pearls and patent leather pumps. You know, I'm in like full normie mode at this point in my life. And I just looked at her and I said, what's happening here? And she said, well, I'll tell you when you're ready.

And I had this full body cramp. I erupted in goosebumps all over my body. I started to cry. And she just looked at me like, what is happening to her? Because I'm in a polo shirt and pearls and patent leather pumps. You know, I'm in like full normie mode at this point in my life. And I just looked at her and I said, what's happening here? And she said, well, I'll tell you when you're ready.