Tayler

Ja, aber wir waren so emotional exklusiv, als ob wir verheiratet wären. Es war eine ganze 2,5 Jahre Situation, wenn du willst. Wir waren offiziell für diese paar Monate, aber ich schlief nicht oder sah niemanden anderen, und so weiter und so fort.

Ich erinnere mich nicht.

I went with a girl.

I really don't know what you're talking about at all because I dated a girl before I dated him. So I don't know which ex-boyfriend he was talking about.

Wir hatten eine ganze Konversation darüber. Ihr kennt mich und wie ehrlich ich von der Show bin. Ich bin immer mit zehn Händen runter.

Aber ihr könnt jeden Narrativ schreiben, den ihr wollt. Was sah diese Nacht in eurer Erinnerung aus? Adam Sandler? We weren't together at this time because he had taken my friend home from a bar. So I asked my friend Lexi to go with me. And that's all we did. We went there and then we went on Broadway and then I went home. She can vouch for me too, my friend Lexi, I'm sure.

They reached out technically to both of us. We were in the Netflix database because of another show we were interviewing for when Netflix was cracking down on the password sharing and they pulled some shows. Das Show, das wir interviewt haben, wurde gedreht. Aber sie haben uns gesagt, wir halten dich in der Datenbank. Und das war ein Jahr her. Naja, ein Jahr nachdem wir den Anruf bekommen haben.

Sie sagten, seid ihr noch zusammen? Und wir sagten, ja, ein bisschen. Und ja, er war ein großer Proponent. Ich fühlte mich, als ob er das Boot fährt, weil er die Dinge hatte, die er prüfen wollte. Und ich war einfach irgendwie mit ihm auf der Reise.

Well, they reached out to me. All of this communication, like for the first show, was all me. When they came back around, I just told him like, hey, what do you think about this Temptation Island? Like, let's start watching it and see what you think. So I guess you could say I was the catalyst. But once it came down to, oh, are we really going to do this after multiple interviews?

I would say he was the one to be like, yes, let's do it.

That I paid for completely.

A couple months, that was two years before that, and I've paid for every single vacation after that.

You weren't. 100% living with me, but you were living off of me. So absolutely.

So he split time between my house and his pregnant sister, their one-year-old and husband's house. He did not have a home of his own. So he spent 50-50 basically. Did not pay anything in bills, groceries, would come over to my house, eat everything, make a mess, then leave, go back to his sister's and then she would take care of him. So... Did you have a house, Tyler?

Did you have somewhere else to go, except my house or your pregnant sister's house?

Du hast nie bezahlt... Wer hat die Mehrheit der Dates bezahlt?

I'm a southern woman at heart. I believe in gender roles. I mean, I feel like the man should be in their masculine and pay for things. So yes, I was a little resentful.

So he had a job when we first got together. He had the high-rise apartment in downtown Nashville, the nice car. So all these things is what drew me to him and connected us close together. It was about a year into our relationship where he said, and honestly, I'm going to write the narrative. Sorry, Tyler, you didn't walk away. You got fired. So there you go.

That was another little detail that I was trying to keep close to my heart on the show for his sake. But him being on social media, doing these Q&As and saying that I was lying, we're not going to play that.

Ich weiß von einigen Sachen, aber ich habe noch nie... Er machte Fragen auf seinem Instagram-Story und antwortete Fragen, die Leute haben.

Oh yeah, they get sent to me, unbeknownst to me. It's not like I'm seeking them out or anything like that.

I really don't know. I'm just kind of here, but I'm not more nervous. I feel like I stood on business and I'm ready to do it again. Love the brown hair. Thank you.

And I stood by you for an entire year. I literally didn't ask you for shit until we were about to go on Temptation Island and I was trying to ask you for an action plan, which is a normal thing to do as a grown adult, to ask your partner, hey, can we just make a plan?

So this is where I disagree a little bit.

Sorry that it was a shit show, but that doesn't mean that I didn't support your dreams or these lofty ideas that you had to walk away from corporate America. I said, okay, I'll stand by you and we're going to do this until I'm sick of it. And I got fucking sick of it.

I never clarified and said that you lived with me. I said, I pay the mortgage, I buy the groceries. I never said, Tyler lived in my house. It was your house? Yes, yeah, it was my house.

Ich meine, wenn wir können, wenn du es da nehmen willst, ich meine, du bist der Nummer eins Cloud Chaser auf dieser ganzen Sache. Du hast mich literally mit all diesen Leuten in Nashville getroffen, weil du aus einem Verheiratetem kamst. Du bist zu Kay auf dem Show gesprungen, hattest nicht wirklich eine Verbindung mit ihr, hast einfach herausgefunden, Sie hatte die meisten Follower.

Wenn du zu Lino schauen willst, kann ich eine Stimme aus Lino spielen, die sagt, dass du das tust.

Grant, das geht nicht um dich.

Das ist die Wahrheit, ich spreche meine Wahrheit. Nichts ist falsch mit dem.

Das ist nicht das, was ich tötete. Das ist eine Situation, die unsere Beziehung betrifft, und ich spreche nur darüber.

Was hast du, Taylor? Ich habe wirklich nicht viel. Ich stelle nur die Wahrheit. Und ich hasse es einfach, auf Social Media und seinen Q&A's zu hören, dass ich lüge und solche Sachen.

I mean, this is just my stance. When I get confrontational, this is how I get. I mean, I don't really have anything to say about that.

Well, first off, I want to say I'm not necessarily proud of that. I think that was a reaction to what I had just seen at the bonfire. And I honestly, the whole experience on the show was such a learning lesson as far as like what maybe not to do and whatever. It was my truth. But

Die Bitch-Tendenzen sind nur ein Mann, der in seinem Masculinen ist, ein Anbieter, der stabil genug ist, um mich sicher und sicher zu machen. Und das ist etwas, was er nicht anbietet.

How I dealt with it is not how I would deal with it now, hindsight is 20-20, obviously. But I think, like I said, it was a reaction. Because I was literally seeing what I already said was going to happen, happen in front of my eyes. It was like all bets are off. So something you guys don't know, which I mentioned in the Tudum article, is that our very last dinner, where we had our phones...

I was choosing our airplane seats back and he looked at me across from the dinner table and said, I think it's best if we don't sit together on the way back. So it seemed like he had already premeditated something and kind of left me out of that.

To fly back home from Temptation Island. Okay. Yeah.

Bevor sie auf Temptation Island gehen. Ja, den Tag, bevor wir unsere Telefonen abgeben und anfangen zu filmen.

Und es ist einfach... Aber du hast gesagt, ich denke, es wäre besser, wenn wir ein bisschen Zeit haben.

Ich glaube, dass jeder das tun würde. Ich werde dich nicht für drei und eine halbe Woche sehen.

Untertitelung des ZDF, 2020 Untertitelung. BR 2018

Ich meine, es ist alte Nachricht jetzt, aber ich glaube, es ist noch relevant. In meinen Augen, ich bestätige nicht alles, was wir gesagt haben oder nicht gesagt haben, was mit dem Reden zu tun hat, aber du gehst auf eine Realität-Television-Show, um deine Beziehung herauszufinden. Ja. Viele der Gespräche, die sie für die Bonfires gespeichert haben, waren Gespräche, die 25, 30 Minuten lang waren.

that just weren't talking shit the whole time. They're doing stuff to get a reaction. How else can I explain to somebody, yeah, we're just not really matching up. They're like, well, why aren't you guys matching up? Well, because of this. Okay, well, tell me more. You're there to get a different perspective and have conversations about your relationship.

Yes, I didn't necessarily need to say bitch tendencies. That was after my bonfire and I was clearly very heated. But for Ashley and I both, We were just kind of trying to be as vulnerable as we can be. Yes, we maybe didn't talk about it in the best way. But how else were we going to talk about the downfall of the relationship?

Yeah, he paraded her around the gym two weeks after we got back.

Paraded her around our gym that we went to for two and a half years.

Paraded.

But who are people? Around the gym.

Tyler's current girlfriend. He actually, why I said earlier when he said he pointed out Kay, he pointed out Lauren to me while we were working at the gym together. But I had already seen her and known about her. Okay.

Oh, I didn't mean to interrupt. But two weeks after we got back home, they were working out together. And they started from that point forward working out every single day together. So I would have to see that. That was really awesome.

That is literally what you did. You started working out together.

Wer ist jetzt dein Freundin?

Yeah, I'm not saying it's about me. I'm saying we just went off of Temptation Island. If he did point her out while they were together.

No, you mentioned that she was staring at us working out together.

Exactly. I said, oh yeah, she's a pretty girl.

But you still did it. You had no sensitivity.

So, regardless of whether

Yeah, 100%.

Nein, weil er war derjenige, der sagte, ich bin ausgestreckt.

Und es hat wirklich geholfen, dass Lino es auf dem Netflix-Artikel kommentiert hat.

Du hast gesagt, ich bin tot. Er hat gesagt, sie ist so gestresst oder so etwas. Also haben über 1000 Leute es genossen. Das hat den ganzen Kommentar begonnen.

Was war das?

Sprechst du im Kontext von Tyler und meiner Beziehung?

Für sure. I think what I've been doing, so I've been in therapy for three years, so like I'm very happy about my journey. I know I have things to work on and I'll continue doing that. I think two things. One, getting out of that survival. Like if somebody says something, I'm like automatically just like, what the fuck?

Und nicht persönlich Dinge zu nehmen, sondern auch nur meine Kindheit zu heilen. Ich habe klar einige Verletzungsprobleme. Ich habe klar einige größere Kindheitstrauma. Also habe ich das verpackt und ich denke, dass ich mich sicher fühle. Und Nummer eins wird mir helfen, in jeder Situation, in der ich mich befinde.

I'm happy to do that and I'm thankful for Tyler and this experience to be able to go through something like that to show me. Because watching the show back was not hard for me at all. It was very healing because I was able to see, oh, okay, so that's, you know, your trauma response or that's fight or flight.

And then once I truly let go and Tyler was riding into the sunset with Kay, I was truly coming into myself. And that was really happy to see.

Oh, ja. Ich arbeite in der Gesundheit, in der öffentlichen Gesundheit. Ich arbeite auf Regierungsgründe, um bessere Unterstützung in unterentwickelten Gemeinschaften zu unterstützen. Ich sehe etwas und ich will einfach helfen. Ich will einfach lieben. Ich habe das Liebe, das ich als Kind hatte, nicht bekommen.

Ich will das für jemand anderes so schlecht machen, weil ich weiß, wie es ist, allein zu sein.

1000%. I definitely feel like I was trying to force something that clearly shouldn't be forced. We should have probably never been together like from the very, very, very beginning. And yes, I did have notes and now I see I need to accept my partner for who they are, not what I want them to be. So that's a lot of growth and positivity. Okay.

Thank you for having us.

Einer, als er eine Frau an einem Bar geküsst hat und ich ein Video davon bekommen habe, als ich auf Verabredung war. Okay. Der andere, als er meinen Freund von einem Bar nach Hause nahm und die Nacht mit ihr verbrachte. Okay. Ja. Okay. Das ist nicht ganz wahr, aber ja. Bitte, Rebutto. Na ja.