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Thomas Curran

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
294 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

Thank you for having me.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

Yeah, so my upbringing was one of love and support, but also material lack.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

We didn't have a great deal of money.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

And one of my earliest memories of that is going to school with the wrong backpack or the wrong pencil case, the wrong brand of sneakers.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

I didn't have gadgets like a Game Boy or a PlayStation.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

Phones were just coming in then.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

I didn't have one of those either.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

And when I compared myself with these two characters, Kevin and Ian, who had all of those things and were able to express, I guess, their personalities and their identities with these material goods, you kind of feel like even though this is all stupid stuff, right?

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

It's just stuff.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

But it really matters to a kid, especially if you don't have it.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

So as I grew older and things like cars started to come into the picture, this kind of shame really started to get really into my bones.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

And that was huge actually.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

Cars was a massive part of this because cars is kind of the ultimate status symbol, right?

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

You just look at how they're advertised.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

All my friends were bought these really super sleek cars with modifications and all the rest of it.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

And that was like really crushing for me.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

That was really embarrassing not to be able to have one too.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

I didn't have the freedom that they had.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

I couldn't go anywhere.

Hidden Brain
Escaping Perfectionism

I just tagged along really in the back seat.

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