The Diddy trial has pulled back the curtain on some seriously provocative bedroom behavior. But how much of it is kink & fetish… and how much is coercion? In this daring episode, Aubrey O’Day teams up with acclaimed sex therapist and Married at First Sight alum Dr. Viviana Coles to unpack the psychology of pleasure, dominance, and what happens when desire turns dark. Dr. V brings expert insight into why cuckolding fantasies, voyeurism, and power play aren’t as taboo as they seem—and how trauma can twist them into something far more dangerous. It’s complex, but Aubrey didn’t come to play it safe. We are here to discuss the secret behaviors that shouldn’t only stay in the bedroom, because some secrets are too dangerous to keep under the sheets!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Amy and TJ presents Aubrey O'Day covering the Diddy Trial.
Hey, everyone. I am so excited to be back with you. I am covering the Diddy trial. This is TJ and Amy presents me, Aubrey O'Day, covering the Diddy trial. I have with me today, Dr. Viviana Coles, who has dedicated her career to helping couples and individuals navigate emotional and physical intimacy challenges since 2003. Now, Viviana, I don't want to
come off too psychotic here, but I am Viv Stan. I am the biggest fan of Married at First Sight, and I know you were on for six seasons sharing the wealth of information that you have in regards to how to create successful, positive relationships. Specifically, why I really wanted to have you here with me today is this headline-making phrase that
the freak offs has become a worldwide, uh, discussed and mostly I noticed made fun of topic because likely a lot of people don't fully understand what they are, what they look like, what they mean, um, what they mean in positive experiences versus negative environments. I kind of want to just really get inside the freak off, no pun intended, and start to actually discuss the,
what all of the elements are. And so just to kind of start us out, I'm a sex positive human. I know you are as well. And for people that don't necessarily understand the exact definition, it's basically just someone who supports and affirms people's sexual interests, kinks, fetishes, whatever their interests are with no judgment. And of course, with consent. That's the big one. Yeah. Yeah. Yes.
And with that being said, I want to ask you before we get into breaking down situations in the trial, let's do myth versus reality quick shots real quick, just so we can kind of establish a norm for the audience in regards to some of the behaviors that they're hearing during this trial.
So, yeah, just so everybody knows, I'm not professionally or personally associated with any of the parties involved in the trial. But all of the information I'm going to be sharing today is from my 20 plus years of working with couples and individuals as a licensed marriage and family therapist and a certified sex therapist. And yes, like Aubrey, I'm definitely sex positive.
So we'll be talking about it in that way. But first and foremost, we have to know about sexual experiences being consensual. And they need to be safe and sane. So that's where we're coming from, at least from my standpoint.
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