
Becker Private Equity & Business Podcast
Can You Do a Great Deal With Bad People? 5-20-25
20 May 2025
In this episode, Scott Becker examines the challenges of doing business with people who are either overly difficult or lack honesty.
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This is Scott Becker with the Becker Private Equity and Business Podcast. Today's discussion is, can you do a great deal with bad people? And again, I have to broadly define and distract what is bad people versus good people. There are plenty of difficult people to do business with that are very good people that I still wouldn't want to be a business with.
So you have people, I am by nature not wired to go for every last nickel or last penny. I'm one who's a believer. You build businesses, you get wealthy, others get wealthy. We all do well in that it doesn't work well when you're back and forth fighting on every little piece of everything. It's bad karma for business that doesn't work out well.
I once had a partner that we used to joke, if he ever flew over New York, Because he flew over New York once, he had ownership of any client that was ever out of New York. And that was obviously hyperbole, but it was that kind of feeling that a dollar for me was less important than a penny or a half penny for him. But just very difficult to do business like that in the long run. Temporarily, yes.
In the long run, no. So there's some people that are difficult. They just feel like they are just, you know, they're out for every nickel. They are very feisty. You can't really communicate and talk with them normally. And I'll talk about those people first, because even those people are honest people. And you know what you're getting.
I find that a very hard way to live one's life and to do business. And so that's sort of one set of things. The other thing with all these business relationships, business relationships are exactly that. Over the long run, they're a business relationship.
And it's almost like when you're working with a partner, a staff member, an employee of yours, a vendor of yours, whoever you're working with, one of the tests of great relationships is those people periodically make a mistake. And you have to decide at that point, how are you treating those people? Good partners treat those people well when they make mistakes and realize it's a mistake.
It's not part of the entire ecosystem. Similarly, when somebody thoughts they were getting paid something and they might have misunderstood, so they're getting paid a little bit less, if they've been doing a great job and they are great performers and great employees or great partners, you try and make sure that they're made whole one way or another.
And you certainly get that comfort in certain partnerships that that is how people are going to behave and you'll be able to to work with them, and I think that is, at the end of the day, the kinds of people you want to do business with, and for a variety of reasons.
You could have the very best lawyers and spend incredible amounts of dollars on lawyers, but those lawyers, you can't legislate every situation that happens. You just can't do it. And so what you really want is people that, through good or bad, that you could work with because you're never going to be able to legislate or regulate or write down a contract every single thing that happens.
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