E48 Chris Shelton Pt.1 — From Scientology Survivor to the REM Model: Victimhood, Responsibility & Waking Up

In Part 1, Anne sits down with cult-education creator Chris Shelton to trace the lived experiences that shaped his forthcoming REM Model. Chris shares his journey growing up in Scientology, signing the Sea Org’s “billion-year” contract, and enduring systemic abuse, forced “volunteer” labor, and sleep deprivation—all rationalized in the name of a higher purpose. Together, Anne and Chris unpack the loaded word “victim,” why reclaiming it is essential for healing, and the uncomfortable but necessary truth that many who escape high-control groups must also face where they were pressured into victimizing others.Drawing clear parallels between Scientology and Landmark (unpaid/underpaid labor, weaponized “transformation,” and sales-driven promises that don’t match reality), they explore how moral dilemmas often spark the first crack in belief—and how the unraveling that follows can take years. Anne reflects on her own leadership history, the long-arc of recovery for staff and participants, and why multidisciplinary support (therapy, spiritual practice, trauma-informed care) outperforms any “one method fixes all” claim.This conversation lays the groundwork for Part 2, where Chris introduces the REM Model and shows how Rationalization, Emotion, and Moral reasoning interact to keep people in—or help them out of—coercive systems.RESOURCES & LINKS: Check out Chrises Show/Podcast - YouTube Channel https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGrPM1Pg2h72ADIuv8eYmzrJ-ppLOlw_g&si=FTr1i8vbjEsqWKb8  Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/speaking-of-cults/id1030984057 Read Anne’s Book Is This A Cult: Confronting the Line Between Exploitation and Transformation and find other pods and resources →  https://isthisacultbook.com/ If you or someone you know is wrestling with recovery after being involved in a high-control group, relationship or any organization, check out the Healthy Healing and Recovery Group w/ Rachel Bernstein  https://ilumn8.life/op/lgat-recovery-group/ MODERATION NOTE: While healthy debate and discussion regarding the topics being discussed is encouraged, personal (ad hominem) attacks on people, places or things will be deleted. FINALLY Please consider supporting this channel which helps us to offer more and better content and resources such as the healing group w/ Rachel.  Contributing also supports the learning and healing needs of folks, no matter their ability to pay, who are waking up to and leaving high demand and cult(ish) groups. Learn what you can do HERE. https://ilumn8.givingfuel.com/ilumn8giving

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