How to Truly See People, in the Midst of Conflict | Ep. 15 COH | Valerie Hope

In this special episode of The Circle of Hope, I’m joined by the incredible Ingrid Gavshon—accomplished documentary filmmaker, masterful coach, and a dear friend who truly embodies compassion and connection across cultures. Our conversation is a soulful exploration of how meaningful relationships are fostered, especially with those who may seem different from us on the surface. Ingrid draws from her rich experiences growing up in South Africa during apartheid, traveling the world, and sitting across from controversial figures as a filmmaker. Her insights remind us how vital it is to move past headlines and labels, and to “see people for who they are, rather than what they represent.”Together, we talk about the power of asking real, curious questions, how to navigate cultural differences with humility, and the courage it takes to find humanity even in the most polarizing situations. We share personal stories—everything from dealing with tough conversations in family, learning to listen for what’s not being said, to transforming friction in teams and cross-cultural encounters into genuine understanding. If you’ve ever wondered how to hold space for difficult dialogue, become a better listener, or simply rekindle the joy of human connection in a divided world, this conversation is for you.Watch This If:You want to learn how to connect deeply with people across cultural, political, or personal dividesYou struggle with “hot button” conversations and are looking for ways to navigate them gracefullyYou’re curious about the behind-the-scenes work of a documentary filmmakerYou value empathy, curiosity, and courageous conversationsYou want practical tips to foster belonging and understanding at work or in your personal lifeQuotes to Remember:“We both see people for who they are rather than for what they represent.” – Ingrid Gavshon“If you really know somebody else, you probably find some level of commonality… but it’s about listening for what’s not being said.” – Ingrid Gavshon“Our job is to get in alignment with that way of serving... There’s not one right way to do it.” – Valerie Hope“People aren’t their politics. They have lives… hopes and dreams and struggles.” – Ingrid GavshonWhat You’ll Learn:How to ask deeper questions that invite openness, not defensivenessThe difference between seeking to understand vs. seeking to win debatesCross-cultural communication insights—preparation vs. organic connectionStrategies for defusing tension and bringing humanity back to polarized topicsThe transformative power of storytelling, curiosity, and communityHow to identify your own intentions in difficult conversationsThat there are many valid ways to contribute to social changeContact Information:Guest: Ingrid GavshonLinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/ingrid-gavshonFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ingrid-gavshonHost: Valerie HopeWebsite:https://www.valeriehope.comInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHopeYoutube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoyProduction Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing.#CircleOfHope #CourageousConversation #CuriosityConnects #GlobalCitizenship #EmpathyInAction

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