Cults & The Culting of America w/ Knitting Cult Lady & Scot Loyd | 54 | Join A Club, Not A Cult

In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, Daniella and Scot talk with brother-sister filmmakers Rebecca and Pete Davis, co-directors of the documentary Join or Die. The film explores the steep decline in civic engagement across America and how rebuilding community is the antidote to the loneliness, polarization, and manipulation that make people vulnerable to cults. Together, they discuss the connection between isolation and extremism, how everyday community life has eroded over decades, and why showing up for local action is both a civic duty and a personal safeguard against coercive control. From Bowling Alone to the "cult of media," this conversation challenges listeners to ask one question: What am I doing alone that I could be doing together? Pete and Rebecca's Links: Website Movie Daniella's Links: Preorder for Culting of America: The Culting of America PRE-SALE (SHIPS BY JANUARY 20, 2026) – Knitting Cult Lady Go Fund Me for Culting of America: https://tr.ee/fldwYRFTJI Daniella Mestyanek Young's book:  From Bookshop.org Uncultured Autograph:  Connect with Daniella on social media  TikTok, Patreon, Instagram  Youtube Other Podcasts Daniella's other podcast: Hey White Women Scot's Socials TikTok:  @thescotloyd Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thescotloyd Haley's Tiktok @nuancedmasculinities 💡 Key Takeaways The ultimate inoculation against bad community is good community. 43% of Americans report belonging to zero community groups — a sign of deep civic decline. Cults exploit the human need for belonging that isolation leaves unmet. Healthy communities build "social capital" — the foundation of both democracy and resilience. Television, air conditioning, and social media each contributed to the privatization of daily life. Online groups offer connection but lack the embodied care of local, face-to-face relationships. "Civic reforestation" starts small — hosting a club, joining a group, showing up in person. Conflict isn't bad; learning to have it well is a democratic skill. Attention is power — Americans spend about 10 hours a day consuming media instead of creating community. Every movement in history began with about 1% of people showing up. Cult-proof your life by diversifying your relationships and commitments. Start where you are: know your neighbors, host a screening, join something local. Chapters 00:00 – Welcome & Introductions 02:00 – Why We Need Good Communities 04:00 – Isolation as a Weapon 05:30 – A 75-Year Decline in Connection 09:00 – Democracy and Social Fabric 12:00 – Air Conditioning, Modernity, and Lost Stoops 14:00 – What Are You Doing Alone That You Could Be Doing Together? 17:00 – From Online to Embodied Community 19:00 – The Cult of Media & Attention Theft 22:00 – Mono-Focus and Cult Vulnerability 26:00 – Why We Have Fewer Friends Now 30:00 – Learning the Lost Art of Organizing 33:00 – Lessons from History 36:00 – Conflict Is Good in a Democracy 40:00 – How to Watch or Host "Join or Die" 42:00 – Showing Up: The Real Inoculation 45:00 – Closing Reflections Produced by Haley Phillips, Meghan Picmann, and Lizy Freudmann  

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