In this episode of Cults and the Culting of America, hosts Scot Loyd and Daniella Mestyanek Young engage in a profound conversation with Elizabeth Abeysekera, who shares her harrowing experiences in the troubled teen industry. The discussion delves into the impact of cults on children, the complexities of trauma, and the importance of communication in parenting. Elizabeth's journey highlights the need for better support systems for troubled teens and offers valuable insights for parents seeking help for their children. The episode emphasizes the significance of understanding family dynamics and the necessity of creating safe environments for children. Daniella's Links: You can read all about my story in my book, Uncultured-- buy signed copies here. https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured For more info on me: Patreon: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Cult book Clubs (Advanced AND Memoirs) Annual Membership: https://bit.ly/YTPLanding Get an autographed copy of my book, Uncultured: https://bit.ly/SignedUncultured Get my book, Uncultured, from Bookshop.org: https://bit.ly/4g1Ufw8 Daniella's Tiktok: Knitting Cult Lady Instagram: https://bit.ly/4ePAOFK / daniellamyoung_ Unamerican video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/YTVideoBook Secret Practice video book (on Patreon): https://bit.ly/3ZswGY8 Other Podcasts Daniella's other podcast: Hey White Women Scot's Socials TikTok: @thescotloyd Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@thescotloyd Haley's Tiktok @nuancedmasculinities Takeaways Elizabeth Abeysekera shares her experience of being kidnapped to a troubled teen camp. Children often bear the brunt of harm in cult-like environments. The troubled teen industry often uses negative reinforcement to control behavior. Parents should look at their family systems when addressing children's issues. Sending kids away can lead to isolation and lack of support. Wraparound care is a more effective approach than sending kids far away. Communication and trust between parents and children are crucial. Trauma can manifest in various ways, and kids may interpret experiences differently than adults. Parents should ensure their children have access to safe and supportive environments. Legislation is being pursued to protect children in troubled teen programs. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Book Launch 01:50 Introducing Elizabeth Abeysekera 03:07 The Impact of Cults on Children 05:58 The Troubled Teen Industry 10:02 Elizabeth's Personal Experience 15:18 The Aftermath of Trauma 19:04 Understanding Troubled Teen Programs 26:25 The Ethics of Treatment in Troubled Teen Programs 27:53 Understanding the Diverse Backgrounds of Troubled Youth 30:29 Navigating Parental Guidance and Support for Troubled Teens 37:43 The Importance of Community and Family in Treatment 39:36 Resources and Alternatives to Traditional Treatment Facilities 44:51 Fostering Open Communication and Trust with Children Produced by Haley Phillips

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