53. Unlearning Inner Child Self-Protection Strategies for Deeper Connection and Vulnerability

If we want more Intimacy and connection with others, it requires vulnerability. We all have ways that we protect ourselves from potential rejection, pain, and vulnerability. Many of these self-protection strategies are depely subconscious and picked up in childhood as ways we had to adapt and survive in our life context. But in adulthood they become ways we distance from oursleves, each other, and the world at large. In this episode, I discuss the 11 self- protection strategies outlined by psychologist Stefanie Stahl in her book The Child In You. When we are aware of which self-protection strategies we tend to use most often, we can actively chose differently and cultivate more connection in our lives. In this episode: Projection and repression: the two ways we distance ourselves to avoid pain 11 self-protective strategies that our inner child uses to try to stay safe ways to heal and become more aware of each strategy Get bonus episodes on substack! ⁠⁠https://depthwork.substack.com/⁠⁠ Reclaiming All Parts of You: Healing the Roots of Shame and Insecurity [Free workbook & meditation download] ⁠https://witty-creator-9045.ck.page/e89cafda64 Links: The Child In You by Stephanie Stahl: https://stefaniestahl.com/books Disclaimer: The DEPTH Work Podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. Any information on this podcast in no way to be construed or substituted as psychological counseling, psychotherapy, mental health counseling, or any other type of therapy or medical advice.

There are no comments yet.

Please log in to write the first comment.