190. The Mask of the Good Christian Woman: Hyper-Religious, High-Achieving, and Hurting in Silence w/ Vernique Esther, LCSW

For so many women of faith, the desire to honor God in love and marriage runs deep—especially when the faith you hold so dear starts to feel at odds with the reality you’re living.When unhealthy theology is taught in the name of God, it becomes hard to separate what’s true from what’s been twisted.You start to question:Is suffering a part of being faithful?Is silence really strength?Is staying—no matter the cost—what God actually wants?Does submission mean self-abandonment?Am I supposed to endure everything?The truth is, many of us weren’t taught faith—we were taught fear, perfectionism, and performance... and told it was God.In this powerful episode, I sit down with licensed therapist and creator of Trauma Languages™, Vernique Esther, to talk about how faith and trauma can quietly collide—and how so many high-achieving women of faith have been left silently hurting under the weight of spiritual distortion.We dive into:What it really means to be hyper-religiousHow trauma hides behind performance and spiritual languageHow distorted theology has shaped the way women love, suffer, and stayThe seven ways trauma shows up in relationshipsAnd how to begin setting the atmosphere for the kind of relationship you truly desireFollow Vernique on Instagram: @verniqueestherVernique Website: https://www.verniqueesther.com/🎧 DOWNLOAD MY FREE AUDIO GUIDE ⬇️Turning The Page: 7 Healthy Ways To Recover After Divorce/Breakup👉 https://www.tonyacarter.com/turningthepage💻 SCHEDULE YOUR 90-MINUTE STRATEGY INTENSIVE ⬇️👉 https://www.tonyacarter.com/strategy📚 Order my book: Divorce Your Story: A Woman's Guide to Heal & Thrive After Divorce➡️ http://www.divorceyourstorybook.com📦 Also available on Amazon: https://amzn.to/2QPWoCnFollow me:📱 Instagram: @iamtonyacarter📘 Facebook: Tonya Carter▶️ YouTube: Tonya Carter**SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW**If this episode spoke to you, take a moment to subscribe and leave a review on Apple or Spotify. Your support helps us reach more women navigating divorce, faith, and healing—so they can find breakthrough, too. 💜

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