Living with Rage

Irritation, frustration, anger, rage: these are all forms of anger. And they are feelings first. But when a person's rage becomes behavior even before thought has a chance to plug in, it is usually because of one of two reasons: 1) it's been repressed for a long time, and when someone drops the proverbial straw, it explodes; 2) it works for manipulative purposes. Either way it has something to do with maturity. I said at the end of the last blog that I'd talk about maturity, and so I am. Maturity is the result of having faced and overcome obstacles by gathering deeper and deeper aspects of self. In other words, when faced with a challenge we don't repeat a rote behavior, or do what someone else taught us to do, or just do what we've always done. Rather, we dig deeper into ourselves to create something original as a solution to the problem or to overcome the obstacle. In the process we learn something about ourselves and/or about life in general. Tune in and learn how to manage your anger before it turns to rage.

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