How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
3 Hidden Reasons Why Women Lose Interest in You—and How to Keep Them Attracted Long-Term! with Johnny Cassell
13 Mar 2025
Have you ever had things start great with a woman only for her to suddenly pull away and say, “I’m not looking to date right now”? The truth is, that’s probably her polite way of saying, “I’m just not interested in you.” In this episode, renowned London-based dating coach Johnny Cassell reveals 3 hidden reasons why women lose interest—and how to keep them attracted to you for the long haul.You’re About to Learn:02:20: Why You Must First “Date Yourself” to Attract a Wonderful Girlfriend18:55: How NOT To Go from a “Wild Tiger to Tubby Housecat” in Her Eyes19:53: How to Escape the “Yawn Zone” When You Talk to Women20:12: Johnny’s Amazing Drill to Flirt at Starbucks And ALSO Get a Free Coffee!22:44: How Connell Approached and Instantly Attracted His Future Girlfriend30:19: The Right Way to Approach a Large Group of Women at a Bar—and the Wrong Way44:44: Johnny’s Secret to Talking to Women of Intimidating Beauty1:01:00: The One Action You Should Take this Week to Improve Your Love LifeListen now to attract—and keep—that incredible woman’s interest!LEARN MORE ABOUT JOHNNY CASSELL OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HIM:http://www.johnnycassell.comFOLLOW JOHNNY ON INSTAGRAM:@LondonDatingCoachTO BOOK A FREE 1-1 CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-1 COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:http://www.datingtransformation.com
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you're displaying yourself as this wild untamable sort of tiger and you get softer and softer and softer until you turn into like a tubby domestic house cat and that's when you lose attraction
Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Connell Barrett. I am here to help you flirt with confidence, get more dates, and get a fantastic girlfriend, and do it with authenticity. No toxic manipulation BS, none of that.
and today i want to talk about maybe not just how to get a great girlfriend but how to have a great relationship with yourself which is going to help you attract a great girlfriend and we're going to talk about that and other things with my guest today his name is johnny cassell johnny is a london-based dating and lifestyle strategist he's also a student of human behavior and
And he specializes in confidence and relationship building. He's got over a decade of experience working with high net worth clients of all shapes and sizes in the London area. And he's a big expert in the world of dating and personal development. He's also the author of a book called Elite Seduction.
And you might have seen him in the Sunday Times, Sky News, BBC Radio, if you're familiar with Lifetime. over on the other side of the pond and he's also on instagram and youtube and you can learn more about johnny at johnny cassell.com that's c-a-s-s-e-l-l.com johnny welcome to the how to get a girlfriend podcast i charge hourly and i'm very expensive but I'm open to it.
Yeah, thanks for being here. I'm always psyched to talk to another male expert because there's a lot of things we have in common. And there's probably going to be some fun things that we differ on or just have complimentary views on.
So, Johnny, I want to start by asking you something we were talking about before we started recording, which is the idea of making sure that a single guy first has a good relationship with himself.
before he finds the right girlfriend the right woman to have for his partner in a relationship can you elaborate on that why is it important to first be good with you before you attract a girlfriend well first of all i think it's completely unreasonable to be asking for the best of someone else if we haven't got to the best place for ourselves so what does that mean i mean if we've if we're in a bit of a hiatus right now we've come out of a long-term relationship
we may have lost parts of ourselves that gave us joy, right? We dedicated our whole life to the relationship. If there's kids involved, you know, there's that too. Work, you know, has took its toll on us. We forgot about the things that give us joy. So a great hack would be to think, okay, what are those things that actually lift me up?
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