How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
7 Powerful Secrets to Attraction that Women Have Taught Me (You Need to Know These!)
13 May 2025
Do you ever wonder, “How the heck do I become more attractive to women?” You’re about to find out—from women themselves. After 20 years studying the art of male-female connection, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 7 powerful secrets he learned directly from women he’s dated. You’ll discover how to have better first dates, how to text women, how to avoid the friend zone—and more.Highlights of this Episode:02:49: Secret #1—Women Want to See Your Softer Side06:12: Secret #2—Don’t Try to Score Points on Dates; Just Don’t Lose Points07:57: Secret #3—Women WANT You to Come Talk to Them, If You Do This10:40: Secret #4—It Isn’t Creepy to Approach Women; It’s Creepy NOT To15:48: Secret #5—You Can Text Her as Much as You Want… Here’s How18:33: Secret #6—The Truth About Going for the First Kiss20:56: Secret #7—On the Apps, Persistence + Charm = DatesDO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:http://www.DatingTransformation.comEMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:[email protected]
Full Episode
There's nothing creepy about approaching. What is creepy is to want to do it and just staring and doing nothing. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. author of Dating Sucks But You Don't, I am your podcast dating coach.
I am here to help you flirt more confidently, get more dates, and get a great girlfriend, and do it all by being authentic. No sketchy pickup artist moves needed. No toxic BS. This is about dating with integrity and authenticity. Yes, even if you're an introvert, even if you're a nerd like me. And today I have a fun episode. I have a lot packed into a very short episode.
Today I want to share with you seven secrets that women have taught me about romantic connection over the years. I've been working on my dating life, or I should say I started working on my dating life exactly 20 years ago, 2005. And I've learned a lot from women. And I want to give you seven secrets that are going to help you. And these are things I bet you don't know.
I'll bet you don't know these. So you're going to hear straight from women today through the lens of my stories and my experiences. Just a quick housekeeping thing. before I get to these seven tips for you, I am about to start working on my second book. It's a book about flirting. It's a book about how men and women can essentially create chemistry almost from a whole cloth, starting from nowhere.
And I'm going to be taking about three months off from taking on new clients. So if you are looking into the possibility of improving your dating life, and you're open to a dating coach, then what you could do if you want to is book a free call with me at datingtransformation.com and I will share with you, here are the sources of your dating problems. Here's why you're not getting matches.
Here's why you can't approach. Here's why women put you in the friend zone. And then I can share with you a roadmap for if we were to work together how to fix these things using my personalized coaching. The thing is, I'm not going to be taking on new clients in about six weeks because I'm going to be taking a sabbatical to write my second book.
So anyway, in the next 30 days or so, if you want to book a free call with me, please do. If you don't, no problem at all. I'm just not going to be available for many, many months for new clients. Okay, anyway, go to datingtransformation.com if you want to book a free consultation with your favorite ginger podcast dating coach. Okay, let's get to it.
I want to give you the seven secrets that women have taught me over the years. I've got a story for each one of these. Secret number one, women are attracted to your masculine and your feminine energy combined. That's right. Women are attracted to feminine energy from a man along with masculine energy. Here's a quick story to exemplify that.
I actually stumbled on this insight almost accidentally, man, 15 years ago or so. I'm on a date, second date, sitting in a park bench with a wonderful woman named Kathy, very stylish, inquisitive, bright, pretty art dealer. And she'd met her share of jerks, clearly. So we're sitting in a park bench. We're having smoothies.
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