How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Ask the Dating Coach: ‘HELP! She Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep During Sex. What Do I Do?’
14 Jan 2025
It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over so-called alpha males. And a listener has a “sheepish” question about talking dirty in bed.Highlights from this episode:01:51: Andrew Asks: “A Woman Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep in Bed. What Do I Do?”03:19: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward08:57: Zach Asks: “Am I Too Nice? Do Women Only Want to Date Alpha Males?”11:25: Why the “Alpha Male” Is a Total Myth13:48: How Kindness, Confidence and Authenticity Will Help You Get a Girlfriend24:30: Barry Asks: “Why Can’t I Get Past the First Date?”25:52: Connell’s Aha Moment that Made Him Magnetic to Women31:07: Three Flirting Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Land Second DatesHit play and start transforming your love life todayFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
Full Episode
To ba or not to ba? That is the question. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I am dating coach Conal Barrett. I'm the real-life Hitch. If Hitch was a nerdy ginger with glasses, I'm here to help you flirt and with confidence, get dates, get a great girlfriend, and to do this all with authenticity. No sketchy, weird, toxic pickup moves needed.
And today's episode is for you if you ever struggle to get second dates. To get that first date, I'm just not feeling it. Today is the episode for you. Or maybe you worry that maybe you're too nice. You're too safe. Women just aren't into you. You're an introvert. You're a nice, sweet introvert, but you're not that guy who women go for, that so-called alpha male. Then this episode is for you.
I'm going to help you with that. Because today we're going to do something called Ask the Dating Coach. I have three fantastic questions from three of you fantastic listeners, and I'm going to Answer them right now. I love these three questions. They're fantastic. The first one's going to blow your mind. It's a fun, amazing sex question. Get ready. Let me just give you a little housekeeping.
If you want to ask me any dating questions, please do. Send me an email, and I will answer them right here on the pod. Email me at connell at datingtransformation.com. That's C-O-N-N-E-L-L at datingtransformation.com. You can ask me anything. And I will answer it if I can on the air in an episode of Ask the Dating Coach. I also might answer it in my column.
I write an advice column for the Good Men Project. So anyway, let's get to it. Let's get to question number one. This is wild. Here we go. This comes from Andrew, a 33-year-old in Brooklyn, New York. Andrew writes, Help! The woman I'm dating wants me to baa like a sheep during sex. What should I do?
In his email to me, he wrote, Hey, Connell, I'm okay with dirty talk in bed, but the woman I'm into and dating is into lambs. In the middle of sex, she says to me, You're my little lamb, aren't you? I try to play along, and I say, Yes, I'm your lamb, but now she's wanting me to make lamb noises. She'll say, bah for me. Bah for me, little lamb. I want to hear you bah.
I'm no kink shamer, Andrew goes on to say, but I feel awkward making lamb noises. Should I tell her that I won't do it anymore? Okay, that's an amazing question. To bah or not to bah? That is the question. Andrew, I'm a big movie nerd. And I think that with this woman, you have a choice between the silence of the lambs and bleat prey love. You still wake up sometimes, don't you?
You wake up in the dark and hear the screaming of the lambs. Yes. My view, by the way, is that if this woman is willing to hit the sheets with you, I'm always so appreciative when a beautiful, wonderful woman wants to hook up with me. So why not oblige her? I don't think she's asking for that much. Let me tell you a quick story from my dating past when I was single.
So years and years ago, I dated a wonderful woman named Kate. And Kate had some very specific desires in the bedroom. I remember the first night we were together, we were in bed, she was lying on my chest, lying next to me, and she took a deep inhalation, a deep smell of my chest, And she breathed in deep and said, ah, you smell like an Irish boxer.
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