How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Bestselling Author Dr. Robert Glover on How to Confidently Meet Women without Being Too Nice (Encore Episode)
23 Nov 2024
In the pantheon of self-development thought leaders for men, no one looms larger than Dr. Robert Glover. A therapist, coach and public speaker for 30 years, Dr. Glover has helped countless men transform from passive and resentful to empowered and confident. His bestselling book, “No More Nice Guy,” is a self-help classic, sharing the same rarified air as David Deida’s “The Way of the Superior Man” and Brene Brown’s “Daring Greatly.”In this encore episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett and Dr. Glover—author of “The Dating Essentials for Men”—will discuss:(5:03) How Connell’s Nerdy Client Ken Got His Very First Kiss Ever(12:19) A Simple Tip on How to Always Know What to Say to Women(19:57) Dr. Glover Reveals Why “Nice Guy Syndrome” Is Hurting Your Love Life(26:20) How Dr. Glover Cracked the Code in His Own Dating Life(30:33) How Shame Can Hurt Your Self-Esteem(34:22) Why Indian and Asian Men Struggle with Dating in the U.S.(42:11) Why a Woman Wants a Little “Caveman” in the Guy She Dates(43:35) How to Confident and Strong without Being an A-Hole(50:22) Dr. Glover’s Formula to Be a Man of “Loving Dominance”(55:11) Why Rejection is Good for You(1:01:03) How to Stop Feeling Needy with Women(1:07:01) The Easy Way to Get a Woman’s Phone Number(1:09:45) Dr. Glover’s Top Tip to Stay out of the Friend ZoneAre you ready to stop being “Mr. Nice Guy” and start being the man women want you to be? Listen now, and take one step closer to getting a great girlfriend!TO LEARN ABOUT DR. GLOVER’S COACHING, COURSES AND HIS BOOK, “DATING ESSENTIALS FOR MEN”http://www.drglover.comFOLLOW DR. GLOVER ON TWITTER/Xhttp://www.twitter.com/dr_r_gloverFOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO CONFIDENTLY FLIRT WITH WOMEN BY BEING AUTHENTIC (NO SKETCHY PICKUP MOVES NEEDED):http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” 30 CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
Full Episode
Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach Conal Barrett. I help men learn to flirt, gain confidence, and of course, get a great girlfriend, all by being radically authentic, being your best true self. And thank you so much for being here for Relaunch Week. This podcast used to be called Dating Transformation.
And I've changed some things, made some adjustments, and we are now the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. And I hope you've been listening to the last five episodes because over the last five episodes, I've shared five puzzle pieces for how you can get a great girlfriend. So the last five episodes, if you've listened to them, thank you. If you haven't, go back and check some of them out.
The first episode is all about radical authenticity and why that's what women want. There's an episode all about flirting. In my last episode, I had my girlfriend on, my amazing girlfriend Jessamyn, and I talked about our first date and how she and I got on the path to becoming boyfriend and girlfriend.
Anyway, the last five episodes, all the puzzle pieces are there for what you need to get a great girlfriend. I wanted to finish Relaunch Week with a special episode featuring an amazing, iconic thought leader. His name is Dr. Robert Glover. He wrote a bestselling book called No More Mr. Nice Guy that sold a bazillion copies and is still selling copies.
And he's also the author of a great book called Dating Essentials for Men. And Dr. Robert Glover is all about No More Mr. Nice Guy. It's all about understanding why and how many men put on a mask with women and put on a false, supplicating, quote unquote, nice guy persona that is inauthentic, that women don't like. And if you are one of those men who puts on a mask
who comes across as overly nice, falsely, supplicatingly nice, then I'll bet you've struggled with some problems like the friend zone or having women say, hey, you're a nice guy, but I'm going to go hook up with this cool, charismatic guy over here. Sorry. So if you struggle with those things, this is a great episode for you. I had a great conversation with Dr. Glover recently.
Basically, way back in the very first days of this podcast, Dr. Glover came on and we had a great conversation. So I'm going to do a replay of that for you in two minutes. So I hope you listened to the whole episode. It's all about how to not be a fake nice guy and how to be a lot more confident with women and putting that true, real, best self out there.
So I hope you listened to the whole episode. It's definitely worth it. Dr. Glover is a true, frankly, he's a genius. He really is a genius in the area of helping men. All that said, if you don't have time to go through and listen to every word of the episode, here is the TLDR version. I'm going to suggest you go to a couple spots in particular.
There's a great moment at the 19 minute and 57 second mark where Dr. Glover talks about what nice guy syndrome is and how it could be hurting your love life. Also, at the 34 minute mark, there's a part where he talks about why Indian men and Asian men struggle with dating in the U.S., He's really articulate about why men of those ethnic backgrounds can really struggle with dating in America.
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