How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!
02 Jan 2025
Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadn’t had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett, Jake learned how to confidently connect with women on the dating apps and IRL. In one whirlwind week, Jake went on five first dates. “That’s more than I’d had the entire previous year,” he said with a laugh. Then he met bright, bubbly Allie, who’s now his girlfriend. “I knew she was the one.”Channeling Creed, this episode will take your love life… higher! Connell and Jake discuss:09:30: The Missed Approach Opportunity that Ignited Jake’s Breakthrough13:35: The Mindset Shift Every Man Needs to Attract His Dream Girlfriend16:30: How Jake Landed Five Dates in Just One Week17:28: The First-Date Aha Moment that Led to a Sexy Make-out20:25: A 15-Minute Ritual for Instant Confidence22:06: How Connell’s “80-20” Flirting Rule Helps You Know What to Say to Women34:17: A Playful Teasing Move that Builds Attraction on Dates40:45: The Wordless Approach Technique that Works in Loud Venues45:38: How to Help the Right Woman See You As Her Dream Guy58:19: Connell’s No. 1 Daily Dating Tip to ApplyWith Allie as his partner, Jake’s decade of loneliness is behind him.Listen now and start your journey to finding the girlfriend you deserve!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
Full Episode
I've been into Creed this year. Okay. Confessions of Jake. Talk about being vulnerable and authentic, admitting that you like Creed. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you learn to flirt, gain confidence, and get a great girlfriend. And do it all by being authentic.
being your real, most authentic, awesome self, no sketchy pickup artist moves needed. And this episode is very special. It's perfect for the new year because it's a new year and I want you to get a new girlfriend in 2025. to have a new wonderful woman entering your life very soon. And today's episode is about how my client Jake was able to do just that.
When Jake first came to me, he was struggling with some issues that might resonate with you. He did not know how to talk to women. He could not approach. He got stuck in his head a lot. He just didn't know what to say, didn't know how to flirt. And he was also struggling with some issues relating to self-confidence. Jake is an engineer. He's in his early 30s. He lives in the southern US.
And he was battling some things like loneliness, He hadn't had a girlfriend since the mid-teens, about 2015, 2016, somewhere around there. And he came to me because he just said, Connell, I'm lonely. I don't know how to talk to women. And I just feel like I'm not what women want. The word he used in one of our very first conversations was, I just feel inadequate. I'm not good looking enough.
I'm not charismatic enough. I'm just not enough. And he and I worked together. And not that long ago, he ended up getting his now girlfriend, Allie, in his life. Allie is, I haven't met her, but she's beautiful. She seems so cool and sweet. And she is deeply, deeply in love with the real Jake.
And Jake just became so much more confident, good at flirting, good at approaching, a lot more dates from the dating apps. And I'm really proud to say that working with But by working with Jake, we were able to get him this incredible girlfriend. And that's what this podcast is called. It's called How to Get a Girlfriend.
So you're about to listen to a fun conversation I had with Jake, basically all about the problems he had and how we fixed them. and how he was able to get a great girlfriend. And along the way, don't just listen to Jake's successes, but also listen to the insights, the tips.
I share a lot of insights, so does Jake, by the way, in this episode about how to talk to women on first dates, about how to get more matches, about having the right mindset, what I call the higher self mindset. that radically authentic self, that most confident, badass version of you, that's the guy women are going to be most attracted to.
So please enjoy this conversation with my former client, Jake, who now has a great girlfriend. He's going to tell you how he brought her into his life. And going forward on this podcast, I want to help you get a great girlfriend. So listen to Jake and I talk about everything from flirting to dating to creed. The band Creed. Enjoy. Hey, Jake. Happy holidays, man. Long time no chat.
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