How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From ‘I’m Too Short’ to ‘I Feel Amazing!’ How to Transform Your Dating Confidence NOW (Live Coaching with Ryan)
01 Apr 2025
Do you ever feel like you’re not tall or good-looking enough for women you find attractive? What if the real turn-off for women isn’t your height or looks but your insecurities? In this live-coaching episode, author and dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Ryan crush those mindset blocks using a powerful process called the Authentic Awakening. It’s an effective way to build instant confidence by exposing the lies your insecurities tell you. The result? Ryan walks away with a whole new outlook on himself and on dating!Highlights of this Episode Include:2:01: Meet Your “Lower Self,” the Insecure Side that Kills Your Confidence4:45: The Brutal Belief that Nearly Made Ryan Quit Dating25:57: Ryan Sees the Cracks in His Toxic “I’m Too Short” Story32:16: The Hidden Toll Your Fear-Based Mind Takes on You44:25: The Truth About What Women Are Attracted to in Men59:56: Connell Smashes Ryan’s Toxic Belief1:22:41: Ryan Awakens His Higher Self—Ryan the Bold!Listen now and transform your dating confidence, just like Ryan did!DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:http://www.DatingTransformation.comEMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:[email protected]
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And it's going to make it so much easier for you to approach. And also, you're going to feel a lot more confident. Does that sound like something you'd be up for? Yeah, definitely. I sound like a used car salesman. If I could put you in this Cadillac, would you be interested in that? Hey, Ryan. What's up, man? Happy Friday to you.
Hey, how's it going? Yeah, excited for the weekend. And yeah, I'm going back home. So it'll be good to like see friends and everything. How are you doing?
I'm good. I'm ready to help you make some breakthroughs here with approaching and with confidence. Before we get into the exercise that I had in mind for you, tell me a little bit about what you've been struggling with in terms of approaching, especially in the area of things you might be insecure about or things that hurt your confidence with the women you want to date.
Yeah, I think... I've traditionally throughout my life struggled with anxiety and self-esteem. And getting older, this has a massive part in terms of day-to-day success I've realized in terms of anecdotal experience. And I think self-image things. I'm relatively short and bald. And I'm also younger. I'm like 24. And these things for a long time were kind of things I was pretty insecure about.
And I think recently, like I'm kind of starting to notice a slight change in terms of things. But this is also like something that I have a lot of work to do. And, you know, and in terms of like approaching women, whether it's like kind of in the context of, you know, just everyday life or like going out, you know, these are things that kind of come to my mind and kind of can affect my vibe.
Yeah, so as you might know from knowing a little bit about my book, in my book I talk about this idea of the higher self and the lower self. And the lower self is that voice of self-doubt where you see a woman you want to talk to and that part of you is like, oh my God, I would love to go meet her. But then that little voice says things like, oh, she won't like me.
because x or y i'm not this enough i'm not tall or rich or cool enough do me a favor just give me a quick 30 second play by play for when you want to approach your type of attractive woman what does that little voice say to you that stops you or that inhibits you in any way yeah it's a good question i think like um
Yeah. Let's say I'm like in the grocery store and I see a super, uh, attractive woman, like, uh, you know, a nine or something that's, uh, you know, wearing like, like athletic and, you know, beautiful and everything. I think, oh man, like this girl is so hot, but she, she gets hit on all the time. She's, um, you know, way out of my league. I'm kind of like
Um, there's, there's a little, there's not too much point in approaching her cause she's, yeah, she's like so far out of my league and, um, it probably just, um, won't go anywhere basically.
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