How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From Lonely to Locking Lips: My 25 Tested Approach Moves to Kiss a Total Cutie on New Year’s Eve
19 Dec 2024
Are you facing a lonely New Year’s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball—along with your romantic hopes—dropping. (More like New Year’s ROTTEN Eve…) Guess what: 2024 doesn’t have to end that way! In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. You’ll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new love—or at least a sexy make-out. And you’ll do it all with class. Think authentic charm, not creepy smarm.With 12 years of experience helping men approach and talk to women, Connell shares these game-changing tips:1:16: Why Ryan Seacrest Sucks (Let’s Vent)5:17: A Mindset Tip to Fix Approach Anxiety10:50: Three Openers to Use with Any Woman12:01: How to Stop Fearing Rejection and Get in the Zone14:39: The Bold Approaching Move that Dials Up Attraction with Women18:12: The Three Questions to Ask Every Woman You Meet20:45: The “Z Pattern”—a Technique to Create Romantic Tension with Eye Contact22:11: Three First-Kiss Moves that Work Almost Every TimeListen now and make this New Year’s Eve as fun and sexy as a first kiss.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]"True confidence comes from commitment, not from fearing the outcome." - Connell Barrett"What seems risky is often the safest path to success." - Connell Barrett
Full Episode
Scientists say that 75% of the earth is covered in water. The rest is covered in Ryan Seacrest. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you learn to flirt, get a great girlfriend, and do it with authenticity, integrity, class. No sketchy pickup moves here. And happy holidays. Merry Christmas. Happy holidays. Happy Hanukkah.
And we're almost at New Year's. New Year's is very close. New Year's is, as this episode is dropping, New Year's is 11 days away. And it's coming fast. And if you're like many single men, you might be looking at a long, lonely New Year's Eve. You know? Just you and Ryan Seacrest watching the ball drop. Not to mention watching your romantic hopes drop. More like New Year's Rotten Eve. Am I right?
Oh, and a little side note here. Here's a quick 30-second rant. I hate Ryan Seacrest. I can't stand Ryan Seacrest. He's so bland. He is the exact opposite of being an authentic, real, raw person. He's just so bland in the middle of the road. And does he have to host every show in the world? Does he have to host Wheel of Fortune and his talk show and his radio show and American Idol?
He's everywhere. Scientists say that 75% of the earth is covered in water. The rest is covered in Ryan Seacrest. Okay, end of rant. Basically, the holidays are here and loneliness is really something that's pretty brutal for a lot of people, especially men. You know, a lot of men really struggle with loneliness. I know I did, which I'll tell you about in a second.
There's a recent poll that came out by Pew, which said that one in three adult men are romantically unattached, which is a record high. And an amazingly astounding 63% of men between the ages of 18 and 30 are single, compared to 34% of women 18 to 30. So 63% of men compared to 34% of women. And I know all about being lonely.
I spent a lot of lonely Christmas Eves, a lot of lonely New Year's Eves with my parents. I barely dated in my 20s and well into my 30s. So I had a lot of lonely New Year's Eves at home alone, drinking. There was one New Year's Eve I drank. I'm sober now. There was one New Year's Eve I drank two bottles of wine. And drinking alone by yourself, not my best moments from the past.
I'm 700 days sober now, by the way. But back in the day, I really struggled with loneliness, and it took a toll. I drank too much. It just hurt my confidence and made me feel kind of hopeless. Now, I changed all that. I've been a dating coach for 12 years now. And as a dating coach for men, my mission is to help single, lonely men connect with wonderful women and find love.
And today I want to give you 25 tips, practical tips, so that you can be with a wonderful woman on New Year's Eve and get your midnight kiss. Because one of my favorite ways to kick off finding a great girlfriend for a guy, is what I do is I play wingman for my clients in New York City. We go out on the town and I help them chat up women in bars and lounges.
And New Year's Eve is actually the best night of the year for a single guy to go out and make sparks fly with women. Got the festive energy, got bustling bars, lots of parties, and it's a great night to meet women and have that maybe, just maybe, a midnight kiss. And so this episode is dropping just 10 or 11 days before New Year's Eve. There's still time.
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