How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Make Her Your Girlfriend in Just 3 Dates (Seriously!) Live Coaching with Jack
17 Dec 2024
Maybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coach Connell Barrett at the start of their first session. By the end of their call, Jack has a proven 3-date plan to make the right woman see him as boyfriend material. Listen as Connell uncovers Jack’s hidden flirting weaknesses (Jack’s aha moment hits at 52 minutes) and turns them into strengths.Jack’s coaching session with Connell will show you:6:41 – Why Women May Not See You as Boyfriend Material9:33 – 3 Simple Ways to Build Romantic Tension on Dates13:25 – The 3-Date Roadmap to Help the Right Woman See You as the Partner She Wants17:53 – Creative Date Ideas that Make Her Want to Keep Seeing You24:19 – How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting More Dates27:30 – The Easy Way to Text Women without Seeming Needy41:03 – How to Tease Women with Charm, NOT Tricks or Manipulation52:49 – Jack’s Aha Moment: Why He’s Been Hitting the 3-Date Wall57:12 – The Secret Flirting Move that Makes Nice Guys Irresistible1:01:18 – How to Give a “Power Compliment” that Get Women Swooning1:04:18 – The Power of Sharing AUTHENTIC Personal Stories on DatesListen now and start your 3-date journey to winning her heart!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]"Recognizing where you’re stuck is the first step toward finding your way forward." - Jack"Shared laughter and playful exchanges frequently initiate the best connections." - Jack
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This podcast is sponsored by Duncan Hines. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm the real-life Hitch. If Hitch was a skinny, nerdy ginger... who looked like the lead singer from Weezer. Thank you for being with me.
I'm here to help you get a great girlfriend and do it by being authentic and flirting with confidence and do it from a place of integrity and heart and not having to use a bunch of sketchy, toxic words. nonsense of pickup artists moves and being a fake alpha male and all that BS that's out there. So I'm glad you're with me.
I know you have 8 million podcast options and thank you for spending time with me today. This is a coaching episode. You're going to meet Jack and Jack is struggling with a problem. You might know this problem. Jack is hitting the three date wall. He's getting to the third date or less and women are saying, Hey Jack, you're a great guy. Let's be friends. I'm not feeling it.
I'm not feeling those sparks. And Jack did not know why. And in this episode, I help him understand why. I see the matrix. And I think I effectively was able to diagnose the issues that were kind of hidden and give him a roadmap that's going to absolutely take his dating results to the next level so he can get a great girlfriend.
And you might be thinking, all right, is it really possible to go from hitting the three-date wall to having a woman look at you by the end of the third date and saying, I want this guy to be my boyfriend. Can you really get a woman to become your girlfriend by three dates? And the answer is yes, or at least to see you as boyfriend material by three dates.
And then even in some instances, actually have a woman say, I only want to date you. I know this because it happened to me a couple of times. Here's a quick story. I want to tell you about Donna, a woman named Donna, my ex-girlfriend, now ex. And Donna, I met Donna. Our first date was a couple quick glasses of wine at a bar. It was very fun, very flirty, very light. The second date,
was, and by the way, I'm giving you what I call the boyfriend experience, the three-date arc for how we get a woman to see you as boyfriend material and the man she wants in her life by the end of date three. So date number one, keep it light and fun and flirty, just like I did with Donna. Date number two, open up a bit more. Be more vulnerable, more real. Drop a lot of the
playful, fun, flirty stuff, not all of it, but drop a lot of it and be a lot more genuine and sincere and authentic and vulnerable because that will help her see even more of the real you. And for date number three, Of the boyfriend experience, it's about bringing her into your world. So for example, I talk about this in today's episode.
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