How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Struggling with Dating Confidence? Try this Mindset Shift to Become Instantly Magnetic to Women (Live Coaching Results)
06 Feb 2025
Do you ever feel like you’re just not what women want? Like you’re not charismatic or interesting or attractive enough? It’s frustrating. The good news? You can fix it—fast! In this special live coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett guides his client Nick to a powerful breakthrough. In just one hour, Nick transforms from feeling insecure to truly magnetic, simply by destroying his biggest limiting belief. (This coaching session first aired in 2023. Now, in 2025, Nick is dating a wonderful woman!)You’re about to learn:2:00: The Real Cause of Dating Insecurity (and How to Fix It)5:28: The Secret to Confidence: Awakening Your Higher Self23:05: How to Identify the Limiting Belief that’s Hurting Your Dating Life38:30: A Simple Way to Erase Self-Doubt for Good52:17: Nick’s Aha Moment: Ditching his Insecurities and Realizing his True Worth to Women1:07:14: The Confidence Breakthrough: Awakening Your Most Amazing, Authentic YouListen now to stop feeling insecure and start feeling confident and magnetic to women.FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contactTO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:[email protected]
Full Episode
And at the end of this episode, you're going to hear the change in his voice. You're going to hear how much more confident he sounds. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you flirt, gain confidence, get a great girlfriend, and do it by being authentic. Integrity. No sketchy pickup moves needed.
And if you are listening to this episode, I'll bet that you struggle with self-confidence. Maybe you're not sure that you are in the league of the kind of woman you'd like to have as a girlfriend. Maybe you just feel like, oh, I'm not good enough at flirting, or I'm not attractive enough. I'm not tall enough. I'm not charismatic enough. I'm not something enough.
I'll bet there's some kind of doubt that's holding you back. And that's incredibly common. It's so common. I dealt with it too. And today I'm going to help you transform any confidence issues you have and go from lacking confidence to feeling really certain and confident about your attractiveness to women. I'm going to let you in on a coaching session I did a while back with my client, Nick.
Nick is a great guy. You're about to listen to the very first coaching session. call we ever had. And Nick came to me because he just feels like he sees himself as a five. He's a five or six out of 10. He's not a really attractive guy in his mind.
And what you're going to listen to is how we take Nick from feeling like I'm not good enough, I'm too nice, women don't want nice guys like me, and you'll actually hear his transformation in this episode. And I'm going to take him through a process that I call the higher self awakening or the authentic self awakening.
Essentially, what we're going to do is identify his biggest limiting belief that is hurting his confidence with women. I'm gonna ask him some questions and take him through a process. And at the end of this episode, you're gonna hear the change in his voice. You're gonna hear how much more confident he sounds, how much more belief he has in himself.
So he's going to essentially transform, not into a different person, but he's gonna awaken what I call the higher self, which is you, me, Nick. It's any man at his most confident. what I call a higher self. Because here's what I learned in all of my years of first working on my dating life and then becoming a dating coach is that
you me everybody we all have dual selves in a sense we have what i call the higher self and what i call the lower self now your higher self is the hero of your life it's any area of your life that brings you joy fulfillment confidence you feel amazing that's your higher self he's confident he's focused he's authentic he's in the zone He's basically you operating at your full potential.
So the job you love, the biceps you've sculpted, maybe the great kid that you're raising if you're a single dad, any area of your life where you feel like amazing, or at least amazing at times, it's the superhero inside of you who's running the show. At the same time, every superhero has an arch villain. Every superhero has to face that mustache twirling bad guy. And I call that the lower self.
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