How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Too Anxious to Approach? Use these 5 Steps to Boldly Meet and Date Wonderful Women (Live Coaching with Ryan)
08 Apr 2025
You see a gorgeous girl and want to approach her—but you freeze up! “What do I say? What if I’m creepy?” That inner voice kills your confidence, keeping you stuck and frustrated. Let’s fix it today! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches his client Ryan the 5 Master Steps to boldly approach women with charm and authenticity—no weird pickup moves needed.What You’ll Learn in this Live-Coaching Episode:10:15: What Stops Ryan from Approaching—and How He Fixed It with “Terminator Glasses”14:22: How to Turn Every Approach into a Fun, Confidence-Building Win24:45: How to Flirt with More Sexuality While Remaining a True Gentleman40:22: How to Tell If She Likes You… or Wants You to Walk Away45:40: How Connell Made Out with a Total Cutie—Just 1 Hour After She Rejected Him!52:00: The 5 Master Steps to Approaching Women with Authentic Confidence1:12:03: One Easy Move to Instantly Build Momentum in Any Bar or Venue1:22:23: Why Bold Risk-Takers are Irresistible to WomenWant to know exactly what to say in a way women find magnetic? Listen now!DO YOU WANT TO ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND? BOOK A FREE CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT 1-1 COACHING:http://www.DatingTransformation.comEMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:[email protected]
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next thing i know she and i are dancing and making out on the dance floor this is the same girl who rejected me quote unquote 60 or so minutes earlier wow so the lesson is not that if a woman says go away the lesson is don't take it as some kind of personal rejection she just might not be in the mood at that moment to talk to you Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast.
I'm your host, dating coach, Conal Barrett. I'm here to help you flirt with confidence and get lots of dates and approach women successfully, confidently, and get a great girlfriend. And do it with authenticity. It's all about being authentic. Authenticity is to dating as the force is to Luke Skywalker. It is strong in you, young Padawan, but you have to access it and channel it.
This is a really fun, another behind-the-scenes coaching episode. You're going to listen to an actual dating coaching one-on-one call I did with my client, Ryan. Ryan came to me with a couple problems. he has mindset confidence issues. He just feels like he felt like he's just too short, not confident enough, not charismatic enough.
He's a bit introverted and he's also a little bit on the shorter side. He's like five, seven, five, eight. And so we worked on his confidence in a previous episode, about two episodes ago, you might've listened to what I call the authentic self awakening, where I, I,
guided ryan on a process where i i help him see that his limiting beliefs are and he's actually the he's incredible he's so attractive so intelligent so awesome so listen to the my last coaching session with ryan about three episodes ago if you'd like to hear that tonight though is him putting it into practice all about how to how to go approach women how to talk to women what to do it's all about a night out at the bars
meeting lots of women, which is what Ryan is now doing. So tonight I give him guidance on how to do that. And if you want to just listen to what I think is my favorite part of the episode, go to about minute 44. At minute 44, I share a funny story from a few years ago. Right before the pandemic hit, I was out with my client Steven in a bar in New York City.
And I had this really amazing moment where I approached a woman with Steven and She blew me off. She, quote, rejected me. And then an hour later, she comes back over to me while I'm on the dance floor, being a wingman for my client, Steve. And she starts dancing with me. And all of a sudden, we're making out. And that's what's possible.
By not taking rejection personally, don't think of an approach where a woman doesn't want to talk to you or isn't super into you. It doesn't mean you suck, you're worthless. It might just mean, hey, I'm not in the mood right now, but give me an hour. And this girl came back over to me. All of a sudden, we're kissing and making out, the same girl who rejected me. And that's a fun story.
I talk about that at the 44 minute mark. Anyway, so feel free to go to that part if you want to just listen to the best highlight moment. Otherwise, enjoy my coaching session with Ryan. And by the way, if you want one-on-one personalized coaching help, then what you can do is go to datingtransformation.com and you can book a free call with me where you can get on the phone with me.
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