Ray William Johnson: True Story Podcast
Her Stalker Sent Her a Bomb - The Sandra Berfield story
05 Feb 2025
This is the story of Sandra Berfield and her stalker Steven Caruso
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So one day, this woman steps outside, and there's a package on her front porch. And she looks at it, and, oh, it was sent by someone in her family. Cool. And she goes to pick it up, and kaboom, the package explodes in her face. Now, the woman, her name's Sandra. And Sandra works at this restaurant. She's a server, and it's a good job. It keeps her bills paid.
But one day, that all changes when this guy comes in and he sits in her section. His name's Steven. So Sandra takes Steven's order and she's polite and she brings him his food and just normal stuff. But the next day, Steven comes back and he sits in her section again. And the day after that, he comes back again and then again and again and again. And every day from then on.
And each time he comes in, he sits in Sandra's section. And she doesn't give him any special attention. She just takes his order like anyone else. But each time he comes in, afterwards, he goes home and he fantasizes about Sandra, about asking her out. While Sandra goes home and she doesn't think about Steven at all.
Sure, she's a little weirded out by him coming in every day, sometimes twice a day, but he seems mostly harmless. Until this whole pattern goes on for about two years. Like he comes in and he sits in her section and he orders food. But then one day Steven gets a little courage and he looks at himself in the mirror and he thinks today is the day. Today I'm going to ask her out.
So he shows up to the restaurant like normal and he sits in her section and eats like normal. But this time, instead of asking Sandra for the bill, he's like, hey, Want to go see a movie sometime? And Sandra, she doesn't know what to say. She's like, I'm flattered, but no, thank you. And from that moment on, it's all awkward. And poor Steven, his feelings are all hurt.
So he leaves and Sandra thinks, well, all right, maybe he'll finally stop coming in. But that's not what happens. The next day, he shows up again and he sits in her section like normal and he starts creeping, just staring at her the whole time while she works for hours. And it's really uncomfortable for her. And then the day after that, he comes in again and then again and again and again.
And each time he just sits there and watches her while she works. And of course, this really starts to creep her out. So one day she's decided she's had enough. So she tells her manager and then her manager goes up to Steven and he's like, all right, buddy, you got to sit in a different section. She can't serve you anymore. You're creeping her out. So Steven does. He sits in another section.
But even in that new section, he just sits there and stares at Sandra the whole time from way across the room. And he takes any opportunity he can to interact with her while she tries her best to avoid him. Now at this point, deep down, Steven is pissed off. Like how dare she reject a nice guy like him and make him move sections. So then outside of work, he starts following her.
Or at least, Sandra's paranoid now and she thinks he's following her. She isn't totally sure. She doesn't have proof. But then one day she wakes up and she goes out to her car and she finds that someone has slashed her tires and she immediately knows it was Steven and she reports it to police. But unfortunately she has no evidence it was him.
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