Ever wonder how some women just always get what they want? It’s not luck, it’s not hustle, and it’s definitely not because they’re better than you. It’s because they’re moving through the world differently. Hilary breaks down the 8 micro habits of women who seem to have it all: love, money, success, and opportunities. In this episode, she gives you the cheat codes you can adopt for yourself! From keeping your word (especially to yourself) to protecting your energy like it’s your job, this is your no-BS guide to becoming magnetic to what you want. We’re talking about unapologetic boundaries, unshakable self-trust, high-vibe thinking, and what it actually means to take radical responsibility for your life. And the final habit? It’s the secret sauce. The one most people miss—but once you get it, everything changes. Episode Highlights: Saying no without an apology Keeping promises (especially the ones you make to yourself) Radical responsibility (no more waiting to be saved) Embodying abundance like it’s a lifestyle, not a mantra And the real magic: acting like you already have it all Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why Some Women Always Get What They Want 01:59 Habit 1: Protect Your Energy 05:34 Habit 2: Speak with Clear Boundaries 07:09 Habit 3: Own Your Worth 10:20 Habit 4: Focus on What You Do Want 13:19 Habit 5: Keep Promises to Yourself 15:38 Habit 6: Radical Self-Responsibility 19:08 Habit 7: Embody Abundance 24:34 Habit 8: Be Her Now 29:09 Practicing Receiving What You Want 30:02 How to Start Getting What You Want Today Ready to stop spinning in self-doubt and start showing up like the woman who already has what she wants? Then hit play. 🔗 Want to do the identity work Hilary mentions? Check out her Daily Journal: https://hilarysilver.com/journal/ To take advantage of Hilary's exclusive 40% savings on sheets, towels, pajamas, and more, visit www.cozyearth.com and use the Promo Code: HILARY
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Does it ever seem like some women just get everything they want? The love, the success, the money, the opportunities. It's like things just always work out for them. Well, it doesn't just seem like it. It is actually happening. But I promise you this, it is not luck. and it's not because they are working harder than you and it's definitely not because they're better than you.
It's because they're moving through the world differently. So today I want to share with you the eight micro habits of women who always seem to get what they want so you can start showing up in your life this way too. And make sure to stay till the very end because I'm saving the most unlikely and surprising one for the last. Hi, it's Hillary. Welcome to the
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Okay, so let's get into it. There is definitely a way of being in the world that attracts what you want. And the women who seem to always get what they want and the things just always seem to work out for them, they know this and they operate in the world like this. And the difference is their presence. It's what they think and how they feel and what they believe about themselves.
And this translates into their behaviors. And it's a vibe that is just truly magnetic. So let's break it all down to micro habits. So habit number one, they don't give just anyone access. One of the biggest shifts that I had to make myself and that I teach all my clients is this, be discerning. Be discerning with who gets access to you.
These women who always get what they want, they understand that their time, their energy, and attention is a valuable and finite and highly desirable commodity. And they don't make themselves available to everyone. And they don't make themselves available to just anyone. It's not just doing this, but it's knowing it. in your soul, in your very being that makes the difference.
Believing this about yourself is where it all begins. And then that translates to the behavior. You must know that your time, your heart, your concern, your thought, your capacity to give of yourself is so valuable that you carefully curate the inner circle of those who get access to it. You don't just hand out a backstage pass to everyone.
For me, I will do anything for those people who are closest to me. But if someone I hardly know or don't have a close relationship with is asking to pick my brain about business or someone who wants my two cents about their relationship, that's a no. It's not because I don't care about them. It's just that I care more about me.
It is not my job to hand over my hard-earned wisdom, my years of investing time and money into developing myself in every way as a skilled clinician, as an eight-figure business owner. So I don't have to hand that over to anyone for free just because they're asking. I value myself and I know my worth. So I know this may be hard for some of you who just want to help everyone all the time.
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