Ever been told, “The world doesn’t revolve around you”? Yeah, same. Hillary is here to call BS on that tired cliché. In this episode, she’s rewriting the narrative and proving why your world absolutely should and DOES revolve around you For too long, we’ve been guilted into thinking that putting ourselves first is wrong, especially women. Hillary is showing you why being the sun in your own universe is the only way to thrive. When you focus on your energy, your mindset, and your desires, every part of your life—relationships, career, health—levels up. If you’re sick of playing small, living on autopilot, or settling for whatever life throws your way, this is your permission slip to flip the script. Hillary’s breaking down how to stop people-pleasing, start thinking about yourself (a lot), and live a life that’s unapologetically yours. Episode Highlights: Why “the world doesn’t revolve around you” is the real selfish statement. How to reclaim your title as the star of your personal universe. Why self-reflection is the ultimate power move. Living on autopilot? Here’s why it’s killing your vibe. The ripple effect: How leveling up one part of your life elevates everything. Hillary’s personal mic-drop moment that changed her life. Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Introduction [01:57] Core Concept: Your World Revolves Around You [02:29] The Impact of Your Energy on Your Life Areas [04:37] Spend More Time Thinking About Yourself [05:30] Knowing Yourself to Make Aligned Choices [07:06] Elevating One Area Elevates All Areas [08:08] The Power of Self-Realization [08:29] The Ripple Effect of Personal Growth [09:22] Conclusion Ready to Make Yourself the Priority? 💡 Get Started Today and Head to hilarysilver.com/guides for free resources, including Hillary’s mini video training This Changes Everything and her 90-day Daily Journal—designed to help you own your life unapologetically. Your world, your rules. Now, go claim your crown. 👑
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The world doesn't revolve around you. Have you heard that phrase? Maybe someone once said that to you, a parent or a teacher, someone entrusted with guiding your growth as a human.
They meant well, and the intent was likely to teach you social skills, how to get along with others in society, to know your place in the pecking order, and that we take others into consideration, that you're not the only one who wants the thing. Other people might want it too. But it's a super shaming statement with so much emotion behind it. It's really infused with judgment.
How dare you actually think that you'll get this thing that you want when others want it too? What makes you think you're so special? It's kind of a slap in the face that quickly can put a child in their place. Message received loud and clear. To think about ourselves is bad or wrong. It's self-indulgent and selfish. something like that.
And thus, the conditioning continues from nearly every area of our lives, especially for girls, that it's bad to think of yourself. But this is extremely misguided. It's diminishing, misleading, and it disconnects us from our own inner truth, our own personal power. So I'm about to turn your world upside down in the best possible way because yes, in fact, it does.
Despite what you've been told, the world does revolve around you. Your world revolves around you and my world revolves around me. And this is the second core concept of my self-centered model. So let's get to it. Hi, it's Hillary. Welcome to the Hillary Silver Podcast. Thanks for tuning into the conversation today.
If you haven't already, it would mean so much to me if you'd take a minute to just click that five-star rating on your podcast app, leave a review, and subscribe so you never miss one of my episodes. And if you're enjoying this podcast, please consider sharing it with a friend because if you like it, they will probably like it too. Okay, so your world does revolve around you.
There are three things to understand about this core concept. First, think about all the areas of your life for a minute, your health and wellness, your body and fitness, your friendships, your children if you have them, your love life, your career, your home, your finances, your hobbies. You get the idea. All of those things are parts of your life and they all orbit around you.
You are at the center of all the things in your life. So yes, you are the sun in your own universe. You provide the energy to all those things. They are all dependent upon you, what you bring to those areas, how you show up in those areas. They all depend on you. If you show up in certain areas of your life with dread, fear, ambivalence, lack of clarity, depressed,
anxious, angry, or resentful, those areas of your life will suffer. Whereas if you show up with love and courage, hope, faith, positivity, those areas of your life will prosper. So when there's an area of your life that is not thriving or fulfilling and you want it to be better, rather than focus on tactical things to improve it,
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