Starting over? Again?! If the thought of making a major life change sends you spiraling, it’s time for a reality check—starting fresh isn’t scary, staying stuck is. Hilary shares the six biggest lessons she’s learned from reinventing herself—multiple times. She’s built and walked away from thriving businesses, started fresh, failed fast, and bet on herself—again and again. And now? She’s giving you the real talk on what it actually takes to start over (and make sure it pays off). Episode Highlights: Get clear on what you actually want (spoiler: most people aren’t). Why being half in, half out is a guaranteed way to stay stuck Failure isn’t a thing. Not trying? That’s the real failure. Why betting on yourself is the safest investment you’ll ever make Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Why Starting Over Feels So Hard [03:52] The #1 Mistake People Make When Reinventing Themselves [05:06] How to Fully Commit to Your Next Move [07:04] The Power of Mindset [09:55] Burnout, Fear & the Power of Letting Go [12:13] Redefining Failure: What You’ve Been Getting Wrong [14:08] Betting on Yourself is the Secret to Lasting Success [16:14] Starting Over (Again) & Why It’s Worth It [19:25] You Have Nothing to Lose 💥 Ready to bet on yourself? Hit play. 💫 Subscribe to Hilary's YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@HilarySilver?sub_confirmation=1 🔥 Grab Hilary’s FREE training, This Changes Everything (and other free resources!): https://hilarysilver.com/guides/ 👉 Follow Hilary on Instagram: @iamhilarysilver 🚀 What’s your biggest reinvention lesson? Drop it in the comments!
Full Episode
What if I told you that starting over, changing careers, walking away from something, successful or not, or being a beginner again in midlife doesn't have to be terrifying, and that you don't have to be in a bad place to want more? I've started over not once, but three times in the last eight years.
And each time that I did, I walked away from something very successful and lucrative simply because I wanted something new. I just wanted to. So whether you're thinking about making a change or not, this episode is still for you because the six lessons that I've learned from all of these restarts are important life lessons that we all need to hear.
And if you are considering taking a leap, by the time that we're done, you're going to understand the secret to making sure that your big, bold move is the right move and how to make sure that it pays off. And stick around till the very end because I'm saving my juiciest one for the last. Hi, it's Hillary. Welcome to the Hillary Silver Podcast. Thanks for tuning into the conversation today.
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The first time that I started over was in 2017 when I walked away from my thriving therapy practice, one that I had built over 14 years. It had a two-month wait list, and it was mostly referral-based, and I had therapists working for me. And I loved what I was doing, so it was really just pretty successful by every measure. But as time went on, I began to crave more.
I saw that my methods were getting amazing results for my clients And I just felt confined. I felt constricted. And I wanted to help more people and make a bigger impact. And just that little nugget of an initial desire eventually grew into a deep yearning for me, like a deep yearning. And the best way that I can describe it is to use the words of Anne Lamott, the writer, the way she put it.
She says, I don't write so that I can publish. I write so that I can breathe. And that is exactly how it felt to me. I thought about it day and night. I was obsessed. And that's really when I started my habit of waking up at 4 a.m. because I had to find the time to work on it because my kids were still little and I was still running my therapy practice. I jumped right in. I bought courses.
I created courses. I hired coaches. I started putting out content. I even got featured as an expert on the Steve Harvey show. All in all, I spent four years, four long years, and $100,000 in all of my trial and error, trying this and trying that. But I was doing both. I was running my practice while building what would eventually become Ready for Love.
And it was honestly excruciating because I felt stuck in this transition. We often don't recognize how difficult transitions are. It's that limbo of still being where you were and where you have been and not yet quite where you want to be. And so it was really tough doing like that four years.
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