Episode 29: Don’t Be Invisible Over 50 Ladies, forget “fading” with age. Hilary Silver is here to bust that myth wide open and show you how aging can crank up your confidence and magnetism. In this episode, she shuts down “Invisible Woman Syndrome”—a tired idea that women lose their spark over time. At 52, Hilary is thriving! She’s strutting into every room with a presence that demands attention, not for validation, but because she knows exactly who she is. Episode Highlights: Confidence isn’t about them. It’s all about you! Forget the validation and focus on what you bring to the table. It’s confidence that sticks. Beauty beyond skin deep, always. True allure? It’s all about knowing your worth from the inside out and embracing every quirk and flaw unapologetically. Forget the outdated belief that life’s peak is behind you. Hilary’s here to tell you that 50+ is when the fun actually begins—wisdom, realness, and all! Age isn’t a limit; it’s leverage! Taking care of yourself is self-respect. Hilary shares why treating yourself right isn’t optional if you want to radiate confidence. Prioritize self-care because it’s a reflection of how much you value yourself. To truly turn heads, you have to be fully there. Hilary breaks down how presence is more than just posture—it’s the energy you bring and the intention behind it. Episode Breakdown: [00:00] Busting the "Invisible Woman" Myth [01:25] Redefining Confidence and Aging [02:28] Turning Heads Starts with Self-Perception [04:14] Owning Your Worth [05:50] Authenticity is Your Best Accessory [06:43] Why Self-Care is Self-Respect [08:30] Making Your Presence Known [10:07] Final Thoughts on Confidence at Every Age Start living unapologetically to turn heads wherever you go! Catch Hilary’s free, paradigm-flipping resources for more insights into confidence that lasts: https://hilarysilver.com/guides/
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Invisible woman syndrome. Have you heard of it? It's an actual phenomena, but only because women have bought into the idea that we become invisible as we age, that we lose our allure, our feminine mystique. We aren't as beautiful anymore, that we lose our appeal, and therefore we're overlooked. We don't matter. We're insignificant out in the public, out in the world.
And I'm just here to tell you that is total bullshit. I am 52 and I am more confident, more powerful, more magnetic and sexier than I've ever been my entire life. So today I'm going to share with you my truths, what I hold to be true that has me turning heads when I walk into any room and how you can do it too. Hi, it's Hillary. Welcome to the Hillary Silver Podcast.
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Now that I'm in my 50s, I feel like I'm standing on the top of a hill above tree line where the clouds have parted and I can finally see clearly. And what I know to be true is this. Women do not have to feel or become invisible as we age. That old adage about being over the hill is so 1950s. We are not in our prime yet. in our 20s and 30s. In fact, we're only just babies in those decades of life.
We're trying to figure it all out and we're feeling pressure and working so hard to do it all and do it well. But at 52, for me, all of that is gone. It's fallen away like armor that I no longer need. I is the real raw naked me that was underneath, like leaving my turtle shell behind. I no longer need to hide or be anything other than who I am.
And again, I've honestly never felt more powerful, sexier, or more confident. And at 50, I really believe we are only just getting started. So here are my truths. Again, what I hold to be true that has me turning heads when I walk into any room. I want to make it very clear though, this is not about turning heads because we need the attention. We need the validation.
We're talking about not losing our impact, our power, our significance, our beauty, our meaning as we age. This is about not being invisible as we age, but maintaining the ability to have an impact. Okay, so first, turning heads is not about what other people think of you. It's about what you think of you.
When you walk into any room, if you're worried about or wondering about what everyone is thinking, that is a problem. You can't control what other people think and you'll never know anyway. So just focus on what you think. What you think is all that matters because people take their cues from you. If you feel insecure or
or self-conscious, or nervous, or anxious, they will feel that oozing from you. If you feel invisible, like no one will notice you, they won't. But if you walk in there like you own the room, like I'm here now, the party can get started, that kind of mindset, that is what they will experience coming off of you.
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